17/12/2025
What’s YOUR proudest achievement?
Genuine question — I’d really love to know.
My first instinct was to say my kids.
Because obviously… they’re my dream come true 🥹
But then I realized something that surprised even me.
I’m even prouder of the healing I did —
because it’s the reason they exist and the reason they have the mum they do.
I tried to have babies during a time when I was deeply unhappy, unhealthy, and in an unhappy marriage.
It didn’t work out. (Thankfully.)
But once I got my s**t together — emotionally, mentally, physically — everything changed.
I attracted their father (someone I’d actually known for years).
We just couldn’t connect while I was living in chaos.
Two and a half months after getting sober, we started dating.
A year later, I got pregnant — first try.
Go figure.
When I knew I was going to be a mum, I went all in on healing.
Because I was determined to be the best one I could be.
(Where my fellow cycle-breakers at? 🫶)
Motherhood then cracked me open even more.
It has a way of bringing every trigger and shadow to the surface — and I was ready to face it.
At the same time, my purpose started to take shape.
By baby number two, I’d started my business.
By baby number three, I was deep into my work — and now I’m doing my PhD in self-change.
So yes — my proudest achievement isn’t just the humans I’ve created.
It’s the healing that made all of it possible.
Because healing didn’t just change my inner world —
it gave me my family, my work, my mission, and a life I’m genuinely proud of.
And the wildest part?
It keeps getting better.
If you’ve spent most of your life feeling shame…
learning to feel pride takes time.
But it’s worth it.
Because when you heal, your entire world changes.
And then — you really do change the world.
This is why I do the work that I do - to help women heal and build lives they’re proud of. If you want support DM me “HEAL”
