06/05/2024
Coming to America: Reflecting on Three Transformative Years Across Europe with the BondFire Project. What do I actually do?
In June 2021, I embarked on a journey that not only shifted the trajectory of my career but also reshaped my perspective on health, community, and resilience. I relocated to Europe to expand the Relationship Society BondFire Project, an initiative focused on Trauma-Informed Spatial Computing XR Therapy, from the Omniverse for the Metaverse, under the ethos "Health is Social. Restoring Social Capital."
Strategic Partnerships and Innovation
One of the cornerstone achievements of my time in Europe was establishing a strategic partnership with WEAR Studio, based in Kyiv, Ukraine (wear-studio.com). This collaboration was pivotal as it laid the groundwork for our expansive projects. Together, we meticulously crafted robust startup business plans, conducted comprehensive market research, and developed the foundational branding and XR Therapy designs and protocols that would define the BondFire Project.
This partnership was not merely transactional but a collaborative effort aimed at deepening the integration of trauma-informed practices within technological solutions. WEAR Studio's expertise in digital design and interactive media was instrumental in bringing our vision to life, ensuring that the therapeutic tools we developed were not only innovative but also deeply empathetic and responsive to the needs of those experiencing trauma.
The collaboration also provided an invaluable opportunity to refine our approach to XR therapy, ensuring that it was grounded in the latest research and best practices in trauma care. This synergy between cutting-edge technology and trauma-informed care principles has set a new standard in the field, demonstrating the potential for technology to play a transformative role in mental health therapy.
By merging our expertise with WEAR Studio's capabilities, we were able to push the boundaries of what is possible in XR therapy, creating engaging, effective, and compassionate therapeutic experiences that stand at the forefront of the industry. This strategic partnership has not only fueled our growth but also reinforced our commitment to innovating responsibly, with a deep understanding of the profound impact our technologies can have on individuals' lives.
Humanitarian Efforts Amidst Conflict
The war in Ukraine brought with it unimaginable challenges and hardships, starkly highlighting the profound need for trauma-informed care within conflict zones. Amidst the turmoil, I made the decision to remain in Ukraine from February 24th to June 26th, both during and after the conflict, to contribute directly to humanitarian efforts.
One of the most heartwarming and impactful endeavors during my time in Europe involved a young Ukrainian boy from Kyiv. At just nine years old, he was diagnosed with stage 4 neuroblastoma, a serious cancer that required specialized medical treatment unavailable locally. Understanding the urgency of his situation, we initiated a fundraising campaign and successfully raised $5,000. This effort enabled us to transport him to a hospital in Zurich, Switzerland, where he could receive the necessary medical care. Thanks to the generosity of donors and the effectiveness of the treatment, I am overjoyed to report that he is now in 100% recovery. This experience not only highlighted the power of community and international cooperation but also underscored the profound impact of our humanitarian efforts on individual lives.
One of the pivotal initiatives we undertook was the relaunch of the Matisse Art for Kids program. This program was specially adapted to the circumstances, taking place in underground locations such as metro stations, World War II-era bomb shelters, and below-ground restaurants in both Odessa and Kyiv. These spaces, though not originally intended for such use, became sanctuaries where children could find psychological relief and express themselves creatively.
Through this program, we were able to reach over 500 children, providing them with $1500 worth of art supplies. This not only offered them a temporary escape from the stress of their environment but also a means to process their experiences through art. The therapeutic value of creative expression in managing trauma is well-documented, and by facilitating these activities, we helped foster a sense of normalcy and safety for these children during incredibly turbulent times.
The impact of these efforts goes beyond just the immediate benefits of engaging the children in art. It also played a crucial role in community building and resilience-enhancing within these makeshift shelters, helping to maintain a sense of community and shared strength among the displaced families. These activities were not just art classes; they were a lifeline, a small but significant beacon of stability and hope in the midst of chaos.
Educational Initiatives and Health Support
Amidst the adversity brought on by the conflict in Ukraine, we recognized the urgent need to support the local communities not only through humanitarian efforts but also by empowering them with essential skills and services. The BondFire Project took a multifaceted approach to this, launching several key initiatives to aid Ukrainian refugees and enhance their quality of life during these trying times.
In a groundbreaking collaboration with renowned relationship experts Harville and Helen Hendrix, we embarked on a project to create a Ukrainian version of their acclaimed "Safe Conversations" methodology, tailored specifically for teaching English to Ukrainian refugees. This initiative aimed to not only enhance language skills but also to facilitate healing through improved communication. The Hendrixes' method, which focuses on fostering connection and understanding through dialogue, was an ideal framework for helping refugees navigate the emotional challenges of displacement while learning a new language. By integrating the principles of Safe Conversations into our language teaching, we provided a dual benefit: empowering refugees with the ability to express themselves clearly in English and equipping them with communication tools that enhance interpersonal relationships and emotional well-being. This culturally adapted program was designed to be sensitive to the specific needs and experiences of the Ukrainian community, providing them with a supportive space to learn and heal.
The BondFire Project Online English Program
One of our major educational initiatives was the BondFire Project Online English Program. This program was designed to help over 100 Ukrainian refugees enhance their language skills, which was crucial for improving their employment prospects and facilitating everyday communications in an increasingly globalized world. The ability to communicate effectively in English opens doors to international job markets and is a vital skill for refugees looking to rebuild their lives in new countries.
Empowering Ukrainian Refugees and Polish Nationals: A Month of Language and Cultural Integration in Poland's Zakopane Mountains and beyond…
In a transformative educational initiative, I had the opportunity to teach English to Ukrainian refugees and Polish nationals for a month, collaborating with Anglo Ville in various locations across Poland. We began this enriching journey in the picturesque Zakopane mountains, a setting that not only provided a serene backdrop but also facilitated a conducive learning environment. This program was designed to empower participants by enhancing their language skills, crucial for broadening their professional opportunities and easing their integration into new communities. The classes focused on practical language use, including constructing resumes and preparing for job interviews, as well as everyday conversational English. This experience was not just about language acquisition but also cultural exchange and building a sense of community among the participants, helping them forge new beginnings in challenging times.
Trauma Relief in Transit: Teaching Tapping Solutions to Ukrainian Refugees During Their Escape from Conflict
Amid the chaos, and upheaval of the war in Kyiv, Ukraine, I embarked on a mission to offer immediate, trauma-informed support to refugees as we journeyed together away from the conflict. I thought, hmmm, trauma-relief on the Go with Joe. Utilizing trains and restaurants as impromptu classrooms, and with the aid of an English translator, I taught over 250 refugees the practices of Tapping Solutions and the Emotional Freedom Technique (EFT). These methods, known for their simplicity and effectiveness, were chosen specifically to help manage anxiety and trauma symptoms related to the war. EFT, in particular, involves tapping on specific points on the body associated with energy meridians, which can quickly reduce the intensity of emotional distress. This intervention aimed to provide refugees with easily accessible, self-help tools to cope with the overwhelming stress and trauma they were experiencing daily, fostering resilience in the face of adversity.
Staging Facility in Kyiv�Understanding the immediate needs of the refugees, we established a staging facility right in the heart of Kyiv. This facility was not just a temporary shelter but a comprehensive support center providing a range of essential services. We facilitated health check-ups to ensure the well-being of the refugees, many of whom had been displaced under stressful and unhealthy conditions.
Partnerships with Local Airbnb Hosts�To address the critical need for safe accommodation, we partnered with local Airbnb hosts. This collaboration allowed us to secure temporary housing for refugees, providing them with safe places to stay during the upheaval. These accommodations were not merely roofs over their heads but safe havens where they could find some peace and plan their next steps.
Transportation and Additional Support Services�The staging facility also served as a hub for other vital services, including secure transportation arrangements to safer locations or border crossings, particularly important for those seeking refuge in neighboring countries. Additionally, we provided assistance with clothing, food, and even legal services to help refugees navigate the complexities of their situations.
Through these initiatives, the BondFire Project not only addressed the immediate physical needs of the refugees but also empowered them with skills and resources that are essential for long-term resilience and integration into new communities. This holistic approach to support during crises is fundamental to our mission of fostering health and social capital, even—and especially—in times of conflict.
Groundbreaking Research and International Collaboration
My journey also took me into the realms of academic research. Working with Dr. Hanna Osuch, we delved into a Trauma-informed XR Therapy project for dental phobia, among other medical anxieties, laying groundwork that could revolutionize therapeutic approaches in highly stressful environments.
During my time in Europe, with almost a year in Krakow, Poland, staying in proximity to our work in Ukraine, I delved deeply into the effects of generational trauma, a poignant chapter of which is encapsulated by the tragic histories of World War II and the Soviet era. My research took me to places steeped in sorrow like Auschwitz, where the echoes of the past provided profound insights into the long-term impacts of trauma that transcend generations. This exploration into historical trauma greatly informed our approach to understanding and treating modern anxieties associated with health care, such as dental phobia, and fears related to blood, needles, and medical procedures. Collaborating with Dr. Hanna Osuch, we have been pioneering trauma-informed XR therapies aimed at addressing these fears. This innovative approach integrates our historical understandings of trauma with cutting-edge technology, offering more compassionate and effective treatments that acknowledge the deep-seated fears that can be traced back through generations.
Groundbreaking Research and International Collaboration
Throughout my journey, I have had the privilege of collaborating with Dr. Hanna Osuch, owner of ArtDent Dentistry (www.artdent.krakow.pl). Dr. Osuch is not just a dentist but a profound expert in dentistry compassion and education. Her innovative approach and deep commitment to dental awareness make her an invaluable partner in our pioneering research into trauma-informed XR therapy.
Dr. Hanna Osuch's Role in Advancing Trauma-Informed Care
Dr. Osuch brings her extensive expertise in compassionate dentistry to the BondFire Project, where she plays a crucial role as a consultant and research partner. Her involvement is critical in developing effective, empathy-driven XR therapy protocols for treating dental phobia and associated medical anxieties, such as fears related to blood, needles, and other medical procedures. Dr. Osuch's deep understanding of patient anxiety and her innovative approaches to managing it are integral to our project, ensuring that our therapeutic methods are both clinically relevant and grounded in compassionate care practices.
Trauma-Informed XR Therapy for Dental Phobia
Under Dr. Osuch’s guidance, our project is exploring how XR technology can be utilized to simulate dental environments, allowing patients to face and overcome their fears in a controlled, safe setting. This therapy aims not only to alleviate anxiety during actual dental visits but also to equip patients with lasting strategies to manage their fears, ultimately enhancing patient engagement and improving overall dental health outcomes.
This collaboration exemplifies how combining clinical expertise with cutting-edge technology can lead to significant advancements in healthcare. Dr. Osuch's dedication to dental education and her advocacy for patient-centered care enrich our research, pushing the boundaries of what is possible in trauma-informed therapeutic practices.
Writing and Conceptualizing Across Continents
As I navigated through my European journey, my travels took me to remarkable destinations including Bulgaria, the Canary Islands of Spain, and Corsica, France. These sojourns were more than just cultural explorations; they were intense periods of reflection and intellectual synthesis where I dedicated myself to consolidating 15 years of research and development.
Converting Experience into Insight
In each location, amidst the backdrop of diverse landscapes and cultures, I immersed myself in the task of writing a forthcoming book and developing an expansive social website. These projects are designed to encapsulate the comprehensive vision of the BondFire Project, translating complex concepts and long-term research into accessible formats. The goal is to share our innovative approach to trauma-informed care and spatial computing XR therapy with a broader audience, demonstrating how technology can be leveraged to enhance mental health on a global scale.
Creative Inspirations from Diverse Environments
Bulgaria, with its rich history and resilient spirit, offered a unique perspective on the resilience of communities, which resonated deeply with the core themes of my work. The serene beauty of the Canary Islands provided a tranquil environment that was conducive to deep thinking and writing, allowing me to delve into the nuances of trauma-informed care without the usual distractions. Corsica’s rugged landscapes and vibrant culture inspired thoughts on the natural human capacity for healing and growth, themes that are central to the BondFire Project’s objectives.
Integrating Global Perspectives
These periods of travel were crucial for integrating diverse cultural insights into the BondFire Project’s framework, ensuring that the principles of trauma-informed care are adaptable and relevant across different societal contexts. The insights gained from these environments have enriched the content of the book and the structure of the social website, both of which aim to foster a global dialogue about the importance of mental health and the potential of XR technology in therapy.
Looking Forward
As I continue to refine these projects, the experiences collected from across continents remain a constant source of inspiration and motivation. They remind me of the universal relevance of our work and reinforce our commitment to creating solutions that are both innovative and inclusive. Through the upcoming book and social website, we aim to reach an even wider audience, spreading knowledge and fostering a community that embraces advanced, compassionate approaches to mental health care.
Building a Global Network
Throughout these years, I've forged invaluable relationships with global experts such as Lucy, CEO of 1st Strike Cyber Security, and potential business partner, Dr. Stavros in Switzerland. The addition of talents like Casey Wickstrom, Dr. Lisa Hardesty, and marketing director Lily Guertin has immensely enriched our project, setting a robust course for the future.
Building a Global Network
Over the course of my three years living in Europe, I have been privileged to build a global network of professionals and experts, each contributing uniquely to the expansion and impact of the BondFire Project. These relationships have not only enriched our initiatives but have also set a robust course for future developments.
Strategic Partnerships
One of our key partnerships includes working with Lucy, CEO of 1st Strike Cyber Security. Her expertise in cyber security has been vital in ensuring that our digital platforms, especially those involving sensitive health data in XR therapy, are secure and trustworthy. This collaboration underscores our commitment to maintaining the highest standards of data protection and privacy for our users.
Another significant potential partnership is with Dr. Stavros in Switzerland, whose insights into European health policies and clinical practices have been instrumental in shaping our strategies for deploying trauma-informed therapies across different regulatory environments. Dr. Stavros' involvement has poised us for successful integration into the European health systems, enhancing our ability to deliver effective and compliant health solutions.
Enriching Talent
The addition of new talents has also dramatically enhanced our capabilities and scope. Casey Wickstrom, a creative and technical writer, has joined our team, bringing with him a flair for communicating complex ideas in a relatable and impactful way. His skills are crucial as we continue to develop content that educates and engages our audience on the importance of trauma-informed care and the potential of XR therapy.
Dr. Lisa Hardesty, a noted psychologist, has brought her extensive experience in mental health to further refine our therapeutic protocols. Her clinical expertise ensures that our therapies are not only technologically advanced but also deeply aligned with the best practices in psychological care.
Lily Guertin, our new marketing director, has transformed how we connect with our audience. Her innovative marketing strategies have increased our visibility and engagement, helping to spread awareness about our project's mission and services across various platforms and audiences.
These collaborations and additions to our team represent more than just growth; they are a testament to the dynamic and interdisciplinary nature of the BondFire Project. As we continue to expand our network and forge new partnerships, we remain committed to innovation and excellence in delivering trauma-informed care globally. This network not only enhances our project's reach and efficacy but also ensures that we remain at the cutting edge of technology and therapy, prepared to meet the challenges and opportunities of the future.
Cultural Immersion and Personal Growth
Living in Europe has been profoundly enriching. I’ve traveled to 14 countries, immersed myself in local cultures, learned languages, enjoyed diverse cuisines, and experienced the breathtaking landscapes from the Alps to the Mediterranean. These experiences have been pivotal in understanding the social fabric of health and wellness from a global perspective.
Cultural Immersion and Personal Growth
Living in Europe for the past three years has offered an extraordinary journey of cultural immersion and personal growth. Traveling through 14 different countries, each with its unique heritage and customs, I have had the invaluable opportunity to dive deeply into local cultures, pick up new languages, savor diverse cuisines, and marvel at some of the world's most breathtaking landscapes—from the majestic Alps to the serene Mediterranean shores.
Exploring Diverse Cultures
Each country presented a new set of traditions and perspectives. Engaging directly with local communities allowed me to gain a deeper appreciation of the varying social norms and lifestyle practices across Europe. This exposure has not only enriched my personal life but also broadened my understanding of how cultural contexts influence health and wellness.
Learning New Languages
Language is a gateway to truly connecting with a culture, and learning to communicate in several European languages has opened up new avenues for both personal and professional interactions. Whether it was mastering survival phrases or engaging in deeper, meaningful conversations, each linguistic achievement helped bridge the gap between myself and the communities I lived among.
Experiencing Culinary Diversity
Food is a reflection of culture, and Europe's culinary diversity is unmatched. From savoring Italy’s rich pastas to indulging in the delicate pastries of France, each meal was a discovery of flavors and traditions. These culinary experiences were not just pleasurable; they were a pathway to understanding the history and values of the places I visited, as every dish has a story.
Witnessing Stunning Landscapes
Europe's landscapes are as varied as its cultures. Hiking through the rugged trails of the Alps provided moments of reflection and rejuvenation, while the tranquil blue waters of the Mediterranean offered peaceful retreats from the bustling cities. These natural wonders were a constant reminder of the planet's beauty and diversity, encouraging a deeper respect for the environment and its critical role in our health and wellbeing.
Understanding Global Health and Social Fabric
These experiences were pivotal in shaping my approach to the BondFire Project. They underscored the importance of considering the social determinants of health and the impact of environmental and cultural factors on mental and physical well-being. Living and traveling across Europe has allowed me to view health through a global lens, integrating these insights into our trauma-informed care practices and policies.
As I reflect on my time in Europe, I realize that this journey has been about more than just personal growth—it has been about forming a holistic understanding of health as a deeply integrated aspect of cultural and environmental contexts. This knowledge continues to inform our work at the BondFire Project, driving us to create solutions that are as diverse and inclusive as the cultures that have inspired them.
Looking Ahead
As I prepare for my return to the USA, I take a moment to reflect on the transformative years I've spent in Europe with a sense of immense gratitude. The rich tapestry of memories, relationships, and achievements I've woven during this time will indelibly shape my approach to health and social capital restoration. The insights I've gained are not merely academic or anecdotal; they are deeply personal, and they underscore the universality and importance of trauma-informed care.
Integrating International Insights
Europe has been a grand classroom, and the lessons I've learned about resilience, community, and healing are invaluable. As I return home, I am excited to bring these international insights into my ongoing and future endeavors. The diverse perspectives and innovative practices I've encountered will enhance my advocacy for trauma-informed care, ensuring that the strategies we employ are inclusive and effective on a global scale.
Advocacy for Global Trauma-Informed Care
The journey through Europe has not only been a passage through various geographies but also a deeper exploration into what it means to heal, connect, and grow within and across communities. These experiences have reinforced my belief in the power of trauma-informed care to transform lives. As the founder of the BondFire Project, I am committed to continuing this vital work, applying the knowledge and strategies we've developed to help more people understand and overcome the effects of trauma.
The BondFire Project: A Continuing Journey
The BondFire Project will continue to thrive and evolve, fueled by every experience, partnership, and life we have touched across Europe. The project is more than just a series of initiatives; it is a movement towards healing and understanding that transcends borders. With the support of new friends and colleagues, and the ongoing collaboration with global experts, we are poised to make a significant impact.
Embracing Future Challenges and Opportunities
Looking ahead, I am enthusiastic about tackling new challenges and seizing opportunities to further the reach and impact of our work. The journey of learning and growth never truly ends; it only deepens and expands as we build on what we have learned and share our discoveries with others. As I transition back to life in the USA, I carry with me not just memories but a renewed commitment to enriching lives and communities through the principles of trauma-informed care.
These three years have been profoundly enriching and perspective-shifting, serving as both a foundation and a springboard for the next phases of our work at the BondFire Project. I look forward to continuing to drive change, promote healing, and restore social capital on an ever-greater scale.
