Professional listener

13/02/2023

Sometimes I feel flat too you know......had this kinda feeling for nearly a week, frustrating isn't it?
So this morning I went for a walk, I listened to every little noise I could hear. When I went home I made myself a hot drink and listened to some podcast..... Best thing I could have done. You just have to think about yourself and what makes you happy 😊

12/02/2023

I can't change the way I am. I can't just walk away.
I can't let you down.
I can't, I can't........
How about replacing the negative ones with the positive?
I have chosen to change my outlook, for this I am walking away and start a new ME. I am not letting you down, I just have to heal myself.
I have choices and I can use them.

05/02/2023

By trying to satisfy others, don't forget, you are number ONE!
At times we think far to much on how people feel about us, it's normal or maybe not........ do others pay your bills, do your job or actually walk in your shoes?
Think about it, if you were totally on your own, by this I mean; no mobile phone, no connection to any "controlling " people, no fears of "fitting " in, wouldn't you agree you had more self respect and maybe, just maybe, love yourself more ?
You are number ONE xoxo

04/02/2023

These days people worry so much about life and the living cost, which is totally understandable.
Some might not know where the money comes from to survive the next day.
Isn't always easy to stay strong....... yet we have to carry on and beat this unknown time.
Right now the control is out our hands but, yes there is a but, we have the power for our own happiness, no matter how small it might seem.

24/11/2022

Not so long ago, I met up with a friend who seemed very lost within himself.
He stated:" I have everything in my life, a loving partner, a great home, fine food and drink.
My car is the newest on the market, yet I feel not fulfilled. I feel lonely, unhappy, scared......."
People might think:" how ungrateful!"
Just by having stuff in your life, doesn't mean you have to feel happy.
I asked:" how about helping others?"
Helping out in a rescue centre for animals, offering time to a nursing home by just giving a little time to someone who would love some company.
One needs to feel worthy to accept themselves.

23/11/2022

You are beautiful the way you are.
Step by step claim the ladder 💪🏽

22/11/2022

I have not been on here for a while but even the strongest person need a little "time out".
I suppose we all struggle at some points and need to find a right pathway to carry on.
Uncertain moments and all the sad moments we all going, or, went through......not easy.
It is perfectly "normal" to feel not right and no shame in admitting, because how else can we move on if we are not true to ourselves.
I am back now and through my weakness I have become stronger, it is all doable , it just takes time and understanding. We are all not alone and should you feel lonely, start to get to know the real you, will be your best friend.
Believe in you and walk the journey in front of you, feels scary at times but you can do it,, YES, YOU

05/06/2022

Please read, it is so true 💞

Find your right cup of tea.

There will always be someone in this life who just doesn’t like you, no matter how hard you try to please them.
There will always be something that you say, or do, which causes offence or division.
Whether you meant to or not.
There will always be someone who finds fault in you, your life or your words.
You may never find out why, please don’t waste your precious time trying to.

You can’t be everyone’s cup of tea.

Then there will be those who like you on impact.
A little fizz of energy that passes between you.
Silently, unseen, bonding.
Those people will not only like you but they will like you fiercely.
They are your people.
Whatever spare time you have, spend it on them.

You can’t be everyone’s cup of tea, but you can be someone’s first sip of a cold drink on a sunny day…

Or a warming hot chocolate when you come in from the rain
or the pop of a long awaited champagne cork
or a stiff shot of tequila when things go awry

Find your people,
love them hard.

Donna Ashworth

20/04/2022

Did I just hear you correctly? You can't change because : the weather isn't as good as you wished for......the job isn't what you were hoping for.....you don't feel comfortable with the way you look.....you feel alone and unloved..... nothing is ok right now!
We ALL go through issues like this but we do have choices to change negative into positive thinking.
This can be doable anytime, how much do you want it to happen?

05/04/2022

You are being loved 💖

28/02/2022

Many, not all, of life's worries, problems, stresses and negativity can come down to how things are viewed. Past experiences, future concerns and struggling with the present all take their toll emotionally and ultimately physically.
Let me help you to find the here and now, moving forward and enjoying life. Step by step