The Feminist Therapist

03/01/2026

Being a bully and bullying someone is a sign of deep immaturity, insecurities and self hate.

Someone who's happy and confident doesn't bully or mock others only people who are sad, frustrated and insecure.

Needing to mock someone only shows we're insecure and it's not cute.

Thankfully nowadays we are all waking up to this and bullies or bullying is not rewarded or excused as much as before (although it still is at times).

If the person doesn't find your joke funny and feels hurt it's maybe because it's NOT funny.

It's not cute to hurt people's feelings and not being able to have normal levels of empathy, being able to see when you go too far or are insensitive.

It's actually something that needs therapy and healing because it's not a sign of a healthy human being.

It's a sign of deep despair that has been rotting.

It's not cool to send someone to therapy because we are mean. It's not cool to humiliate someone publicly, make fun of someone just existing and being themselves.

It's pathetic and being a LOSER.

Shows we are living a mediocre life, have low self esteem, and a very shallow connexion to ourselves. it's sad.

It's sad when the only way we bond with others, make friends is through bullying someone or being fake because we have such an ugly personality.

The best thing to do when we are this way is to go heal and leave others alone.

03/01/2026

There is nothing wrong with starting over again life can surprise us and there are not failure only learning and expansion/healing.

02/01/2026

I agree we shouldn't have children if we can't afford them ALONE (in the worse case scenario) and we should be wise about choosing partners and some people just have kids for stupid reasons and end up traumatizing them.

Yet we are human nobody is perfect and still even if we have it all set and we're prepared, having children is a whole other game emotionally and we usually can't predict fully how we're going to react, what type of child we're going to have as well (special need, neurodivergent, neurotypical).

And yes in this world bringing children in it might sound like not the best idea for some, and it can be scary nevertheless children are our future and if we are called to bring one into this world in my opinion it's because they will partake in positive change not only within us but for our society.

01/01/2026

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30/12/2025

It's important that you understand that things will not always make sense in your life.

Sometimes things will go against what you pictured or were conditioned to picture and desire. Against the norm and what is conventional.

But it doesn't mean things are less beautiful and perfect.

Sometimes it will feel scary but it's ok to be scared and it's normal when you go against your own conditioning.

There will always be people judging you no matter what you do that's how our society works.

Sad people LOVE to judge and unfortunately there are too many in this society.

So you might as well do what is true to you and what makes you really happy even if you need to be creative and step out of what is conventional, deemed as the better option and labelled "normal".

You deserve to be happy and do whatever feels right to you.

Don't let this society prevent you from being your true self and live a life in which you're happy.

The truth is you were never meant to fit the mold, we came here to break the norm and conventions. That's why you never felt like you fitted in, you were never meant to and people saw it immediately and because they were insecure made you feel ashamed of yourself when they secretly admired you.

So f**k this BE YOU, DO YOU goddess. That's what you came here for.

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22/12/2025

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You're always in charge, never forget that.

19/11/2025

It's to focus on remaining smart and grounded.

17/11/2025

Not deconditioning ourselves from male centeredness is a choice.

17/11/2025

Women sometimes are women's biggest bullies.

Sometimes we were even raised by bullies.

As women in this society if we don't heal trauma and refuse to make the effort to heal we will forever be insecure and act like bullies with other women even those within our own families, with our own daughters and nieces.

We will forever defend male abusers (and female) and victim blame.

We will forever raise our daughters to believe their worth lies in getting close to the pxdophilic beauty standard, being mothers and serving men and make them feel as their womanly bodies are repulsive.

We will forever neglect our emotional and smexual needs to keep the peace with our partners and teach our daughters and/or nieces the same.

It's not always easy to break free from the mold and stay on track.

It's sometimes lonely to be a free and confident woman.

But yet from personal experience there is no better experience of life than living it knowing your worth and being able to set and uphold your sacred boundaries.

Even if it comes with it's set of challenges.

I promise you'll end up attracting your tribe. people who actually want to see you shine and not waiting for an opportunity to stab you in the back or take you down because they secretly envy you.

But you have to be willing to loose people, let them go. Be brave to walk your path according to your truth even if it feels lonely at times.

Know you're not alone on this journey, I'm right here with you goddess.