01/03/2026
When something goes wrong during birth, the trauma doesn’t only affect the person giving birth.
In this clip from the The MAMA Podcast, Dr Katheryn Gutteridge explains bystander trauma, the psychological impact experienced by partners or supporters who witness an emergency, feel powerless, or are left without information while urgent care is happening.
Many partners describe:
-being separated suddenly
-not knowing what’s happening
-replaying moments over and over afterwards
These experiences can leave lasting emotional scars and they’re rarely talked about. You’re not “overreacting” if something stayed with you. Naming it can be the first step toward understanding it.
🎧 In this episode, we explore why recognising bystander trauma matters, and why partners also deserve communication, support, and care.
👉 Find episodes of The MAMA Podcast via the link in the top comment.