29/12/2025
I’m about to the blow the f*cking roof of 2026, the next chapter in my story is proof that divine timing does exist in the universe 🙏
For over 20 years I carried the weight of feeling misunderstood and overlooked by the world, I’ve always felt like a visionary far to ahead for this timeline,
The loneliness of knowing there was so much more locked inside me, crushed my soul, but I had to accept the world wasn’t ready for me, so the burden of feeling like I didn’t belong anywhere slowly chipped away at my self confidence,
But all that struggle shaped me, stretched me, and forced me to grow in the dark. I didn’t disappear during those years I was transforming in silence and now I’m rising high !!!
This ascent isn’t just mine alone, It’s for anyone who feels invisible, unheard, unseen or just out of place in the world. this is our moment to shine bright together my friend 🙏
Everything you ever needed to succeed is locked inside you, you just have to be brave enough to ask the universe for the keys to open up your heart and everything you’ve ever dreamed of will appear my friend 🙏
This is my 2026 manifesto who’s with me 💪
1. Owning my narrative
In 2026 I’m so over people putting me into little boxes to make themselves feel more comfortable, I refuse to comply and conform to what society expects of me. You can’t put a label on Finchie, I’m a multi dimensional human being, full of life experience personally and professionally, as a gay male, facialist, business man and health fanatic !!!
2. Old battle scars
In 2026 it’s about continuing the heal from old trauma, in my life I’ve survived and overcome so much, sexual abuse, tumour, homelessness and navigating my sexuality. I’m no longer defined by my past because I’ve made my peace with it, I’m focused on moving forward with positive intention !!!
3. Reclaiming my voice
In 2026 it’s time to use my voice to inspire
and empower others, for years I felt paralysed, unable to speak up and share my story with the world, I was frightened of being judged, but the pain of remaining silent has become impossible to sustain, the truth will set me free in 2026.
4. Accepting my flaws
In 2026 I will turn 38, yes I am starting to show my age, I have lines and wrinkles on my face, I’m far from a flawless super model. But I absolutely love and adore my older lived in skin because it has depth of character that tells a story of resilience, survival and strength !
5. Flexin my business brain
In 2026 it’s about using my business brain like never before, with two decades of entrepreneurial experience under my belt, it’s time to put all I’ve learned into practice, my brain isn’t wired like other entrepreneurs, always expect the unexpected from Finchie !!!
6. Freedom of expression
In 2026 social media will continue to be the vehicle I use to be showcase my creative flair, I absolutely love expressing myself through the medium of art, for me photography and videography has been my medicine, helping me to heal, articulate and share my story with the entire world.
7. Living life on my terms
In 2026 I’m living life as my authentic self, unapologetic for all my sass, I’m done people pleasing, if you can’t embrace my eccentricity or accept me for who I am, then I don’t wan’t you in my life, you know where the door is.
8. Keeping it creative
In 2026 it’s about building on all the editing skills I’ve learned in recent years, it’s time to level up and keep perfecting my unique style of content creation, because every detail you see on my social media is meticulously and lovingly edited by me, from the colour grading, photo composition, videography, scripting, staging and story telling !!!
9. Staying humble
In 2026 it’s about keeping my feet firmly on
the ground, it’s never wasted on me how lucky I am to still be living my entrepreneurial dream of being a facialist since 2008, to have a career that spans almost two decades absolutely blows my mind !!!
10. Relinquishing the past
In 2026 I’m releasing what no longer serves
me, letting go of my inhibitions, limiting belief systems, outdated mindset, any bad habits and negative thinking holding me back from my unleashing my true potential.
11. Unlocking my power
In 2026 it’s time to harness the power source locked deep down inside me, past trauma has been holding me back for decades, but there’s no more hiding or denying the light locked inside, it’s time to shine so f*cking bright, the worlds not ready for Finchie !!!!
If you read this far I’d like to give an extra special thank you to all my Finchlings, your love, support, loyalty means everything to me 🙏
And Finchlings
Always remember we are the authors of our story, with pen in hand ready to write our next chapter in 2026 !!!
Go shine so f*cking bright, because the world needs your light to help those that are lost in darkness 🙏
As always love
F I N C H I E ❤️
