10/03/2026
đExpectations vs reality of newborn days!
A few weeks after my son was born I was watching a nappy advert. The mum was calm, put together, going about her day.
My brain kept thinking â Where is the baby?
No newborn in sight. Just a mum, hands free, living her life.
This is where adverts need a reality check -
Newborns are biologically wired to be held.
Skin to skin contact regulates their temperature, their heart rate, their breathing.
It reduces cortisol and supports brain development.
It is not a habit. It is not a problem. It is exactly what nature intended.
So if you have spent any time in those early weeks wondering why your baby will only sleep on you, why they cry the moment you put them down, why they seem to need you every single second.
Itâs not because something is wrong with your baby. Itâs because youâve been shown an unrealistic version of what newborn life looks like!!
That gap between expectation and reality is where so much unnecessary anxiety is born.
Your baby is not broken.
Your baby is a newborn. đ
Save this for a reminder - and share it with someone who is in those early weeks right now.
Lynsey x
Newborn days, newborn expectations, 4th trimester , FTM,