Laura How

10/02/2026

Screen addiction in marriage is the elephant in the room nobody wants to talk about.

Not because it's complicated, but because we've all normalised it.

If you're living with someone who'd rather scroll than connect, you're not needy for wanting more.

New blog post - link in comment.

10/02/2026

Social media isn't just stealing her time. It's rewriting the story of your marriage.

Every scroll feeds her a highlight reel of someone else's life — curated, filtered, and designed to make reality feel like it's not enough. Designed to make you feel like you're not enough.

It's what I call the Wormtongue Effect. A constant voice whispering comparison and resentment until she starts believing it.

And the worst part? She probably doesn't even realise it's happening. 👀

Full video on this one 👇

10/02/2026

He's back! George from TheTinMen returns to the Love & Cherish Podcast for round two.

We tackle the claims that keep feminism positioned as an unquestionable force for good: the pay gap, domestic violence statistics, boys falling behind in education, and why 15 men a day are still dying by su***de in the UK while nobody seems to want to talk about it.

George brings the data. Laura brings 15 years of clinical experience watching these dynamics play out in real marriages. And together we ask the question most people won't: what if the narrative we've been sold isn't the full picture?

🎧 Link in the comments.

03/02/2026

If a husband said, "I’m just not interested in deep conversations anymore, you need to accept that," we would call it emotional abandonment.

We might even call it cruelty.

Yet, when the roles are reversed and physical intimacy is taken off the table indefinitely, we often frame it as a "boundary" that must be respected without question.

Why is one essential for a marriage, but the other is optional?

🎥 I released a full video breaking this down.

How to watch:

Tap the link in my bio 🔗
Click the "YouTube" button
Watch: "The Double Standard Ruining 'Good' Marriages"

03/02/2026

We have normalized emotional demands while demonizing s*xual needs. This is creating a massive imbalance in modern marriages.

I break down exactly why this is happening and how to fix it in my brand new video.

👇 Watch the full breakdown here: [LINK IN THE FIRST COMMENT]

31/01/2026

There's an inconsistency in how we talk about different needs in marriage and it should be challenged.

29/01/2026

Your relationship can either feel like a list of chores or it can feel like a wild, beautiful ride. The difference is the degree to which each partner actively chooses to show up. 💙

When both partners are intentionally investing, connecting, and choosing each other daily, that's when marriage transforms from mundane to magical.

Think about your own relationship: Are you both actively choosing to show up for each other? What does that look like in practice?

Sometimes it's the small things like making time for conversation, offering affection without expecting anything in return, or simply being curious about your partner's inner world instead of making assumptions.

Other times it's the bigger commitments, staying engaged through conflict, prioritizing your relationship during difficult times, or doing the hard work of personal growth for the sake of the partnership.

The truth is that relationships respond to intentionality. When you show up, your partner feels it. And when they show up too, you get to experience the wild, beautiful ride that marriage was meant to be.

What's one way you've intentionally "shown up" in your relationship recently? I'd love to hear your story in the comments. 👇

29/01/2026

Ever notice those older couples who seem calm, close, and quietly happy together? 💛

That didn’t happen by luck.

They’ve been saying yes to each other for decades.

Emotionally. Practically. S*xually.

This isn’t really about s*x.
S*x is often the way a husband feels most loved, most connected, most cared about.

It’s the yes behind the engagement that builds a marriage you can still feel proud of years later ❤️

29/01/2026

"Will my wife ever understand?"

That's the question I get most from men in s*xless marriages.
The answer? YES - if she gets the right information.

I've collected real stories from wives who finally "got it":
✅ "I thought I was broken - turns out it's just responsive desire"
✅ "S*x isn't just release for him - it's how he feels loved"
✅ "I wish someone had told me this 10 years ago"

These women were dealing with the SAME challenges your wife is:
🔴 Menopause
🔴 Toddlers
🔴 Exhaustion
🔴 Low libido from SSRIs
🔴 "I just never feel like it"

What changed? They understood how their desire actually works, that their husband's needs are valid, and that intimacy can be created intentionally.

Read what happened👉 https://laurahow.com/wives-responsive-desire-stories/

*xlessmarriage

Real stories from wives who discovered responsive desire and transformed their marriages by becoming intentional about intimacy. "I had no idea until now."

28/01/2026

20/01/2026

Here's a thought... What if men don't actually want to harm women?

What if they never did?

Professor Janice Fiamengo examines feminism's founding documents and reveals a truth that should be good news, but many refuse to hear it.

Latest podcast episode 👇
https://laurahow.com/the-truth-about-feminism/

Is feminism really about equality? Professor Janice Fiamengo examines the historical evidence, victim mentality, and how feminist ideology harms marriages.