20/10/2025
To get ready for Christmas with elderly parents
Start with having an open conversation about their expectations, and focus on comfort, safety, and shared activities that are accessible. This includes adapting holiday preparations like decorating, helping with shopping, and planning activities like watching movies or cooking together to accommodate their abilities and interests. Be patient, flexible, and ready to create a comfortable, safe environment while cherishing the time together.
Plan ahead with your parents
Discuss expectations:
Talk to your parents about what they want for the holidays, where they would prefer to celebrate, and what they are hoping for.
Assess the home:
Ensure their home is safe warm and comfortable, especially if you are celebrating there. This includes checking for accessibility issues like stairs or a lack of a walk-in shower.
Understand that their health or energy levels may change, and be prepared to adjust plans accordingly. Adapt holiday traditions
Decorating:
Involve them in decorating to their ability. This could be as simple as sitting by the tree and reminiscing, or you can help them with tasks like placing ornaments or making a smaller, tabletop decoration.
Shopping and cards: Offer to help with Christmas shopping, either in-person or online. You can also assist with writing and sending cards, which can be difficult for those with vision or hand-steadiness issues, suggests Call-In Homecare.
Cooking:
Cook the Christmas feast together, tailoring the meal to their preferences.
Start a new tradition: Suggest a new, low-key tradition, or revisit old ones to create shared memories.
Share stories and movies: Watch their favourite holiday movies and ask them to share stories about why they love them.
Stay connected:
If they have a friend or neighbour who may be alone, consider inviting them to join the celebration to help prevent loneliness, notes Helping Hands Home Care.
Going out:
Go to see holiday lights or attend a local event like a carol service together, with help for transportation.
Comfort and safety: Consider practical gifts like a heated throw, an electric blanket, a personal alarm system, or motion-activated lights, as recommended by Taking Care Personal Alarms and Alina Homecare.
Helpful gadgets: Other thoughtful ideas include a Wi-Fi digital photo frame, an automatic jar opener, or a single-serve coffee maker, according to Great Senior Living.