The Gap Counselling

The Gap Counselling Your support system in the UK and Mallorca - Counselling & Life Coaching services. Whoever you are, and whatever you are going through, you are not alone!

We all have moments or periods in our lives, in which our circumstances can appear out of control. Sometimes we need help in getting a different perspective, and given 'tools' that will support us, in certain situations. Here at The Gap Counselling, our aim is to listen first, so that we can understand. So many of us don't feel understood, even by our closest family and friends. Gary, with over 12 years experience, offers a safe space where people can talk freely, without judgment, to explore the difficulty in their lives. Whilst Gary believes that talking alone, does not always solve the problem; it can help to gain a new perspective and mindset. If you would like to speak with Gary to discuss your situation; please contact us.


“Most people do not listen with the intent to understand. Most people listen with the intent to reply.” – Stephen Covey

26/12/2025
26/12/2025

Does this conversation seem familiar? Could it be time for a real conversation?

Are you in Palma this weekend? ⚽🌊 Join us for the Movember Charity Football Match on Sunday 3rd November! If there are a...
23/12/2025

Are you in Palma this weekend? ⚽🌊

Join us for the Movember Charity Football Match on Sunday 3rd November! If there are any crew out there who would like to take part and play on the Yachtie team, please send us a message.

We’re proud to sponsor this fantastic day organised by The Gap Counselling in support of Movember, Cancer Support Group, Yachting Gives Back, and Street Angels.

📅 Event Highlights:
⚽ Football Match
🔥 BBQ
🎨 Face painting
🎪 Family-friendly stalls
💪 Tug of war
🎶 DJ & live music
🎟️ Raffle with amazing prizes donated by local businesses!

Bring your crew, and if you’re up for some friendly competition, we’d love to have you join the Yachtie Team!

Help make a difference while having an epic day out in Palma! 💙

18/12/2025

The Empty Chair...

At Christmas, absence can feel louder than anything else:
A chair that was always theirs.
A place that feels wrong to fill.
A moment that reminds you of everything that has changed.

Grief does not come with rules. Some families leave the chair empty. Some choose someone to sit there in honour. Some are still working out what feels right.

There is no correct way to remember someone you love. There is only what feels manageable, together.

If this season feels heavy for you, you are not alone.

This Sunday, we are holding a quiet, gentle moment at The Gap in Son Caliu to remember those who are no longer with us.

Remembering Our Loved Ones
Sunday 21st December
11:00
The Gap, Son Caliu

Light a candle, sit quietly, share a warm drink, or simply be present. You are welcome to come alone, with family, or in support of a friend. A small moment of togetherness can help.

After 20 years in a secure medical career, Imke found herself asking the same question many of us quietly carry around:“...
11/12/2025

After 20 years in a secure medical career, Imke found herself asking the same question many of us quietly carry around:
“Is this really my life… or just the life I once chose?”

Her journey back to herself was inspired by our 8-week programme, Dare To Be You. It’s for people who’ve spent years doing everything “right” but still feel disconnected from who they really are.

If you’re at a crossroads… if you’ve been functioning instead of living… if you know there’s more in you than the world has seen so far… this course is your space to reconnect with yourself and move forward with clarity and courage.

New courses start in February 2026:
• Online for those in the UK
• In-person at The Gap Café

More info and sign-ups are on our website: https://www.thegapcounselling.com/services/courses/dare-to-be-you

Dare to be you. It might be the right moment to take your next step.

In this video, Imke shares her powerful story of walking away from a 20-year medical career to rediscover her identity, purpose and passion.If you’ve ever fo...

Remembering Our Loved Ones – Sunday 21st December, 11:00 🕯  Christmas can be a difficult time for many, especially if yo...
05/12/2025

Remembering Our Loved Ones – Sunday 21st December, 11:00 🕯

Christmas can be a difficult time for many, especially if you’ve lost someone you love.

On Sunday, 21st December, there will be a gentle, reflective moment at The Gap - Son Caliu to honour those who are no longer with us.

🕯 Light a candle
☕ Enjoy a complimentary tea or coffee
💛 Take a quiet moment to remember

Everyone is welcome, whether you’re coming alone, with family, or supporting a friend. Sometimes a small moment of togetherness can make all the difference.

Visit The Gap's page for more details.

✨ Small joys count too.A quiet morning.A message from a friend.A walk in the cold air.A cup of something warm.Not every ...
04/12/2025

✨ Small joys count too.
A quiet morning.
A message from a friend.
A walk in the cold air.
A cup of something warm.

Not every moment needs to be magical, some can simply be gentle.

Here’s to finding little pockets of peace this Christmas period.

We’re grateful to share some lovely feedback from BIC - Baleares International College, Sant Agustí 's latest newsletter...
02/12/2025

We’re grateful to share some lovely feedback from BIC - Baleares International College, Sant Agustí 's latest newsletter following Gary’s Men’s Mental Health Awareness Month talk with students in Years 10–13.

The session focused on helping young people understand what mental health really is, the pressures they face, and how to recognise when something isn’t right.

BIC highlighted how Gary encouraged students to:
• recognise early signs of poor mental health
• speak openly, especially young men who may feel unsure about asking for help
• stay connected, talk honestly, and seek support when needed

These conversations matter.
When young people learn early on that their feelings are valid, that they’re allowed to ask for help, and that they’re not alone, they build stronger foundations for lifelong mental wellbeing.

A huge thank you to the staff and students at BIC for welcoming us, and for recognising how important it is to talk openly about mental health with the next generation.

Happy Sunday everyone! A reminder that today’s final Movember event has been postponed, our new date will be Thursday 18...
30/11/2025

Happy Sunday everyone!

A reminder that today’s final Movember event has been postponed, our new date will be Thursday 18th December from 18:00 - get your Christmas jumpers ready! 🎄

The raffle will be drawn on the 18th, so there is still plenty of time to get involved 🥳

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Opening Hours

Monday 9am - 6pm
Tuesday 9am - 6pm
Wednesday 9am - 6pm
Thursday 9am - 6pm
Friday 9am - 6pm

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Our Story

The name 'The Gap', is the 'space' between the day we are born, and the day we leave this earth. This Gap represents our life on earth. During our life, the ultimate reason for our 'gap', is to know who we really are (identity); and to discover the reason why we are here (purpose). Life is precious. Life is a gift! It is my belief that whatever we achieve in life, our gap will be unfulfilled unless we are able to answer arguably the two most important questions in life: 1 - Who am I? 2 - What is my purpose? Our Vision The vision of 'The Gap Enterprises', is for every human being worldwide, to discover their real purpose in life:

'Knowing who you are', and 'Knowing why you are here'...and not being afraid to 'live it'! 'DARING to be YOU!' Our Passion Our passion is YOU! Why? Because there is only ONE you! Our mission is to empower YOU, by helping you discover your real purpose in life.

Working together

If you would appreciate guidance in discovering the purpose within you, or are in need of support regarding how to make your passion a reality, then... Contact us today, to discuss how we can work together.