Stand Tall - Strength and Wellbeing

08/11/2025

We need to reframe how we talk about men’s mental health.

For years, “masculine norms” have been blamed as barriers to help-seeking. But that framing often implies men are the problem — that they’re broken, emotionally unintelligent, or need fixing.

The truth is: men value strength, independence, reliability, and purpose. So instead of saying “you’re ill and need help,” we should be saying:

Let’s get you back on track.
Let’s help you feel confident and strong again.
Let’s help you reconnect with your sense of purpose.

This isn’t about asking men to abandon their masculinity — it’s about helping them reclaim their strength and agency. When we do that, men are far more likely to engage, open up, and move forward.

Because in many ways, what we’ve done to men is the equivalent of telling women: “zip your mouth and don’t tell people about your problems.” It’s a cultural message that shuts people down.

Reference: Üzümçeker, E. (2025). Traditional Masculinity and Men’s Psychological Help-Seeking: A Meta-Analysis. International Journal of Psychology. PubMed ID: 40038563

08/11/2025

28/10/2025

22/10/2025

Men don’t need fixing — they need understanding.
Too often, services respond to men’s distress with labels and medication, when what they really need is connection, context, and practical support.

In my latest piece originally for the Oxford Centre for Male Psychology newsletter, I explore how we can start working with men’s strengths instead of against their perceived weaknesses — drawing on research, experience, and a bit of common sense.

Let’s start listening before labelling.

Check out latest blog via standtallwales.co.uk/blog (link in bio) or subscribe to my free substack; open.substack.com/pub/paulregan

21/10/2025

14/10/2025

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Stand Tall - Strength and Wellbeing 🤍🖤

Every Monday at the Health Hwb 🧡

I don’t know if you know, but every Monday evening from 6pm–8pm, Stand Tall Wales run their men’s group right here in our Community Room at the Health Hwb Barry.

In today’s world, so many of our sons, brothers, and fathers are facing silent battles with their mental health and this incredible not-for-profit organisation is doing something about it.

Stand Tall Wales is dedicated to supporting men across Barry and the Vale of Glamorgan, helping them connect, build resilience, and find a genuine sense of belonging. Their sessions are relaxed, welcoming, and completely free a safe space to talk, listen, and grow together. 💬

If you or someone you know could benefit from being part of this group, come along next Monday. You’ll be made to feel right at home.

18/09/2025

Not sure if you know this already… but every Monday night at the Hwb, our community room is home to a men’s mental health meeting run by Stand Tall - Strength and Wellbeing 👊

They’re a great bunch of lads, creating a space where men can talk, listen, and support each other.

No pressure, no judgement, just real conversations that matter.

If you (or someone you know) could do with that, come along on a Monday evening.

Trust us, these boys make a difference.

📲 For more info, give Paul a shout on 07816 273671

13/08/2025

We are absolutely over the moon to share that we’ve agreed to offer Stand Tall - Strength and Wellbeing the use of our Community Room at the Health Hwb every Monday night from 6:30 pm, moving forward. 🧡

Taking care of mental health especially men’s mental health is a massive part of my mission. I know firsthand what it feels like, and I’m going through my own journey right now.

To be able to provide a safe, welcoming space for Stand Tall and everyone who attends their meetings makes everything we are doing worthwhile.

We will support this cause no matter what, because this is what we stand for.

Proud to stand shoulder to shoulder with Stand Tall as they continue doing an incredible job supporting people across the Vale of Glamorgan. 👏 🧡

23/07/2025

Monday Night Meet-Ups – 19:00

Informal. Chilled. No pressure.

Grab a cuppa, take a seat, and be open to learning something new.

Each week we dive into a different topic—from sleep to stress, worry to motivation, and everything in between. It’s about understanding how our minds and bodies work, and picking up useful tools along the way.

If you’re a guy looking to improve your wellbeing, you’re welcome here.

🕖 Mondays at 19:00
📍 Held in a lovely venue in Barry
💻 Just get in touch or hit the link in bio to self-refer

Come see what it’s all about.
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19/07/2025

If you know a service, team, group who have helped you, well worth nominating for MH awards

Best Mental Health Support Service Sponsorship Available This award will go to a mental health support service that has shown and provided exceptional help to individuals through their daily actions as an organisation. This category would be suitable for helplines and help centres, support services,...

14/07/2025

New blog just dropped — “Resilience: The Fine Line Between Bullsh*t and Something Useful”

We throw the word resilience around like it’s the answer to everything. But too often, it’s become just another way to shame people who are struggling.

This blog’s part rant, part reflection, part real-world guide to what resilience actually looks like — without the hustle, hype or Goggins cosplay.

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