27/12/2025
I realised we haven’t posted in Jack’s page for a while.
The last two months have been wild, but thankfully in a positive way!
Jack is doing amazing - since we started the Keto diet in June, our last emergency hospital trip was in July, which is a far cry from our fortnightly admissions over the first ten months since his diagnosis. We haven’t required any rescue medications at home since October.
Developmentally - we are still where we were since our last update. Jack can sit for brief periods but still needs someone with him as his strength can vary.
We still manage regular seizures and we have had a few breakthroughs with his Infantile Spasms which can be disheartening and raises our anxiety levels - but on the whole we have seen a marked improvement.
And some more news..
As most of you know we have spent the last two years living in a construction site. We started building an extension on our home before we even knew we were having Jack - our property had the potential and we wanted more space for our (then) three children to grow up in.
After Jack arrived and we had his diagnosis - the extra space we wanted, then became an urgent need, his equipment is getting bigger as he grows, and we had one tiny living room for 6 of us.
Jack has a huge P Pod to rest in, a seated support chair, and a standing frame.
We get 800 medicine syringes delivered each month, 120 feeding sets plus so many other bits we need to keep our boy safe and help him thrive.
We didn’t have space for even a small dining table so we all had to eat on the sofas.
As you can imagine, life became really overwhelming and my mental health plummeted - I genuinely felt like I was suffocating in a tiny space and the mum guilt of not having room to ensure Jack’s physio needs were met was such an awful feeling.
Unfortunately, due to Jack’s care needs I had to make the decision to give up work - we suddenly only had one income and the building works were at a standstill.
Even after remortgaging our home we still couldn’t finalise the house as we were limited on funds.
From the middle of December everything changed - and very fast!
Our wonderful friends and family rallied around to raise money to help towards the building works with a charity car wash. An event was also held at a local pub where more money was raised, and a wonderful small local charity purchased Jack’s P POD and surprised our older children with new bikes.
I decided on a whim to send the poster for the car wash to our local councillor, asking if he would be so kind as to share this within his community.
This is where it all completely spiralled. Within three days, with the help of a local businessman who, bless him, doesn’t wish to be named, a huge team of contractors came into our home and completely transformed it.
They completed our boys new bedrooms, which means we now have space for Jack to have his own room.
They built a beautiful new bathroom - total luxury after having only a shower room for two years - we are loving having a bath back!
They transformed our driveway, moving over 4 tonnes of whatever rubbish we have built up over the last two years, and brought tonnes of stone to drop and level off to make getting Jack to the car much safer and easier.
We have had electricians in completing everything we needed, putting in extra sockets for Jacks electrical equipments, lighting outside for safety etc.
We now have a fully functioning living/dining area which also fits Jacks seating equipment and we no longer trip over it!
We even got gifted a real Christmas tree which looks beautiful in our new room.
Christmas morning we woke up and all sat around opening presents, last year it was impossible to move with all the toys and wrapping paper, it was so different this time.
We usually have to go out for Christmas dinner - at a ridiculous cost and the added stress of getting four kids dressed and out by a certain time.
This year, we stayed home in our pyjamas and had our own home cooked Christmas dinner around our dining table.
The gentleman who arranged all of this, said he wanted us to have a lovely Christmas, but what he did has stretched far beyond that, it has genuinely changed our lives for the better.
We have been fortunate enough also to have friends and family taking the time out of their busy festive schedules to come to the house, help with cleaning, organising, building furniture and generally just supporting us and helping to get everything finalised.
The contractors who have been in our home have gifted us their time and labour out of the kindness of their hearts to ensure we have a home that is comfortable and practical, for not only Jack’s needs, but ours as a family too.
I am writing this feeling lighter, blessed and so thankful that there is such kindness within our community 💙