Relax with Jo

Relax with Jo Hello, I’m Jo, I’m coaching Chilren and Parents to support their emotional feelings and behaviours. To help navigate, identify, accept and manage.

I can offer a “safe space” to learn how to calm and relax their big feelings with individualised Coaching.

29/03/2026

🚨Learn this number 🚨159

I watched this just now and thought this is worth sharing regarding BANK FRAUD phone call scams, it’s the hotline, help line number.

If you receive a call and they say they are from your bank or the bank fraud team … hang up and dial 159, this will then be verified by the official fraud team. They can tell you the truth. Your own bank won’t mind you hanging up to check too.
We need to remember this number 159. This is for the Uk only.

https://stopscamsuk.org.uk/our-work/159-phone-number/

https://www.facebook.com/share/v/18Q8SBK8Gd/?mibextid=wwXIfr

But what if it doesn’t happen ?  What if it goes well ? Challenges for a Catastrophic thinker 🤔
28/03/2026

But what if it doesn’t happen ?
What if it goes well ?

Challenges for a Catastrophic thinker 🤔

I can’t  say enough good things about how this illustration demonstrates what each person uses as a go to reply when ask...
27/03/2026

I can’t say enough good things about how this illustration demonstrates what each person uses as a go to reply when asked how they are.

Especially around grief.
Grief for loved one
Grief for an animal
Grief for something or a possession
Grief for what has passed
Anticipatory grief

⬇️🙏Link here for your further reading.

https://www.talkspace.com/blog/types-of-grief/

Adult or a child will have a pre have a programmed reply or script that will not always be the truth, as we spare the feelings of others. It’s to awkward and messy.
Try to open safe spaces for Mental Health to build stronger realistic non judgment or shameful responses or questions to others. Maybe just a listening ear.
As we have learnt, it ok to say,” I’m not ok”We have also learnt that feelings can pass like a storm if you can sit it out, through talking. Still valuing the feelings, then our brain soon gets to realise that not all threats are real. We can be safe to just let things flow. With guidance or support from friends or family.
We are all easily triggered and knowing that’s it’s ok to move through emotions talk about emotions is a good place to sit too.

Thank you to

There is so much more to grief than what people might see 💜

Grief can be like an iceberg- what we show to the world is just the tip but beneath the surface there can be so much happening which often goes unseen.

For more information and support, head to our website ⬇️
https://ow.ly/iROI50YyJPe

Sleep 💤……10 easy steps for self and bedroom prep to help get a better nights sleep. This illustration is aimed at Teens,...
26/03/2026

Sleep 💤……10 easy steps for self and bedroom prep to help get a better nights sleep. This illustration is aimed at Teens,
to be honest anyone would benefit from this prep.
New habit ? Rewire an old thought pattern ?!! It takes 28 days to reset your thought pattern to make or break a habit.
Repetitive behaviour and actions create repetitive pattern of behaviour.
So break the cycle.

Love this time of the year 👏🌸Nature sharing its beauty to us all to enjoy. 😊
23/03/2026

Love this time of the year 👏🌸

Nature sharing its beauty to us all to enjoy. 😊

How are you feeling ? Daily check - in
20/03/2026

How are you feeling ?

Daily check - in

Calming down hacks 🫁🧠🙏❤️
17/03/2026

Calming down hacks 🫁🧠🙏❤️

Sending love to all  ❤️thinking of you.
15/03/2026

Sending love to all ❤️thinking of you.

Quick calm Techniques 🫁🧠
14/03/2026

Quick calm Techniques 🫁🧠

ANGER 😡 What sits beneath it ?
11/03/2026

ANGER 😡

What sits beneath it ?

International Women’s Day ❤️Give To Gain This year's International Women's Day theme, “Give To Gain”, underscores the pr...
08/03/2026

International Women’s Day ❤️

Give To Gain

This year's International Women's Day theme, “Give To Gain”, underscores the principle that meaningful progress on gender equality requires deliberate contributions from governments, institutions and individuals. When we invest in women's safety, rights and leadership, we strengthen societies as a whole.

Friendship issues or bullying It’s time to recognise that when you child feels excluded it’s bullying.  Thank you for sh...
04/03/2026

Friendship issues or bullying

It’s time to recognise that when you child feels excluded it’s bullying.


Thank you for sharing this living Full.

I’m teaching my kids exclusion is an under-the-radar form of bullying.

We’ve all experienced it—
that sting of being left out,
of two friends whispering a secret in front of you
and refusing to tell you what it’s about.

It happens in our schools,
on sports teams,
in after-school activities and clubs.
And while it may seem subtle,
it can be deeply damaging.

When a group consistently leaves someone out—
when they make sure that person knows they’re not invited,
not wanted,
not part of the circle—
that’s not harmless.
That’s bullying.

This kind of behavior chips away at self-esteem.
It teaches kids they’re never enough.
And the silence around it allows it to keep spreading.

Not liking someone is human.
But you can still be kind.
You can still be civil.
You can still make space for empathy.

Because bullying isn’t just about pushing someone on the playground.

Exclusion is a silent pandemic.
And it’s time we start calling it what it is.

Living FULL by Danielle Sherman-Lazar

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Relax with Jo - Relax Kids

Being a Relax Kids coach enables me to promote relaxation for your child. Our children have so many worries from their own emotions and our very busy lifestyles. Using Relaxkids 7 steps I'm aiming to lead them onto good self-care with increased self-confidence which builds to stronger resilience. Healthy positive thoughts and a healthy lifestyle can help them to have a calmer mind. Children need a clearer understanding of their emotions and how they play a huge part in our everyday lives. Changing negative thoughts is on every class and course that I run. One of my chill skills courses will help them to have more knowledge as to why we respond and react the way we do. Our feelings and our unhelpful thoughts can be so damaging and they get in the way of us having a go or being the best we can be. with simple steps to follow the children can easily switch things around as they become more confident.

June 2020 revised update for my Coaching.

WHAT WILL A RELAX KIDS CLASS OFFER MY CHILD?

I will give children a great opportunity to thrive and be the best they can be through joining the courses. Relaxation is key to a good self-care routine, introducing and promoting mental health for our children. Relax kids offers audio visualisations and various books/journals for them to take ownership of. Relaxing THEIR way, when THEY need to, with regular use of the techniques. Emotional intelligence is one of the key factors in their resilience. Mental Health is part of us all so we should not ignore the fact that we all need some guidance in areas that we can support. Self-belief can really help your child to have good strong positive thoughts leading to better positive confidence in who they are and not what they think they should be. The classes I would say that after three half terms and your child is on the right road to good all-round self-care self-belief and inner calm. The courses are designed as a one-off course maybe per ever other school year or dependent on how much your child needs some support. They can return to any class at anytime my community classes are there for all the children every 5 weeks of the School term. All clades and courses are discounted for recommendations and siblings attending and if you booked 2 blocks of 5 weeks community classes or chill skills classes, * This doesn't apply to Chill Skills 1-2-1 private bespoke coaching courses.