29/09/2025
Reflecting on Su***de Prevention Month 2025 as we reach the end of September.....
Partaking in the Baton of Hope Events in Basingstoke last week was particularly poignant. There was lots of emotional stories, inspirational speakers AND a real sense of hope. By raising awareness, normalising conversations about su***de and suicidal thoughts, we start to banish the shame and make it easier for those who are struggling to reach out for support.
I took away four key points...
CHECK IN: If you are worried about someone, or just get a sense that something is not quite right, try to ask the question. Even if the person you are asking denies or dismisses your question, it shows that you are willing to hear them when they are ready to open up and ask for help.
REACH OUT: If you are in a dark place yourself, and you have thought about harming yourself, please talk to someone - anyone! Friends, family member, boss, teacher, priest, medical professional, helpline. It doesn't matter who - just talk.
RAISE HOPE: When you care about someone - tell them! Remind people that they are valued, cherished and loved, in case they struggle to see that for themselves. If you have come through adversity, share that story with those who need to hear it because where they are feels so bleak.
LOWER STIGMA: Normalise talking about mental health difficulties and su***de. Change language to move away from words like "committed" which are tied to the shame associated with sin or illegality. Every death by su***de is a tragedy, and by making those conversations easier, lives will be saved.
We are here if you are seeking professional support, and don't forget these other organisations if you are in crisis:
SAMARITANS: 116 123
CALM: 0800 585858
PAPYRUS (young people): 0800 0684141
and NHS 111 or 999
And if you have lost someone you love to Su***de SOBS: 0300 111 5565