08/12/2025
After years of hearing women’s stories, the pattern is impossible to ignore and it’s time we talk about it honestly.
Before January.
1. There's a subtle message that you are only worthy of praise, love and celebration when you achieve weight loss, which implies you’re not worthy of those things unless you do. This breeds self-criticism and a “not good enough” narrative that spills straight into chaotic, unsatisfying food behaviours.
2. The rules create gamification, and yes, that novelty can feel motivating at first. But over time it builds a loud diet voice, anxiety and fear of getting things “wrong,” and a relationship with food that feels anything but nourishing.
3. And let’s be honest… if this was a genuinely sustainable approach, people would attend once, not for decades. What I see is women returning year after year, with the net result being more weight gain and more shame. That’s not a personal failing. That’s a flaw in the model.
There are success stories, of course. But for every one, there’s someone feeling utterly broken by diet culture believing they're the problem.
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