07/11/2025
The 'pre-event anxiety' for someone with IBS is a real and exhausting experience.
Your mind scans for danger, putting your gut-brain axis on high alert.
Here’s a simple trick to reclaim your calm and confidence:
Set an Intention, Not an Expectation.
An expectation (I must be symptom-free all night) is brittle and out of your control.
An intention (I will focus on connecting with my friend) is positive, flexible, and fully within your control.
Giving your brain a positive job to do shifts your entire nervous system from a state of threat to a state of purpose.
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My FREE 5-minute Calming Breathing Exercise is the perfect audio to listen to while you're getting ready.
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