24/11/2025
Friendships are as varied and different as the human beings that are in them. I know I have friendships that are pure silliness, some that are rooted in common interests, others based on our shared history, and, fortunately, I have a good chunk of friends who I connect with often and feel deeply seen and loved by in both my best and worst moments.
Friendship has been a huge part of my healing journey, as I learn to come back to myself, share more of my heart, communicate more effectively, and stretch in the places where I still feel lingering tightness. It's in friendship that I find a mirror to help me better understand what I value, need to work on, and what no longer works for me any more.
It's been in friendships with people whom I both feel safe around and admire deeply; the ones who make me want to be a better friend and who unknowingly hold me to a higher standard; it's in these sorts of dynamics where the most deeply gratifying shifts toward maturity have happened for me.
Some of the biggest lessons around healthy boundaries have come from friends who set them lovingly; letting me know what they need and what works for them without additional strings or harsh energy attached. They've inspired and motivated me in the same direction, and created a safe environment in which to try.
As I continue to grow and find new edges, I've also found that many of my friendships have changed. Some have fallen away and new folks have stepped in. In others, I'm meeting old friends in newer and deeper ways and have been surprised to find more joy, safety, and honesty.
I'm feeling so incredibly grateful today for my friends.
What role has friendship played in your journey back to yourself?
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