17/11/2025
đ The run up to and Christmas itself is not easy for everyone. Itâs important to remind ourselves that this is ok.
đAs Christmas approaches, many people feel a mix of excitement and stress. If youâre feeling overwhelmed, drained, or not festive enough, youâre not alone.
đHere are a few things to keep in mind in the run up to Christmas:
⨠Your feelings are valid.
Whether youâre grieving, stretched thin, or simply exhausted, your emotions matter.
⨠Set realistic expectations.
You donât need a perfect home, perfect gifts, or perfect mood. Choose whatâs meaningful, and let the rest be âgood enough.â
⨠Protect your boundaries.
Itâs okay to say no, leave early, or create space for yourself. Christmas obligations shouldnât cost your well-being and stress levels.
⨠Budget your time, energy and your finances.
Overspending and overcommitting are common reasons for stress.
⨠Make time for for you, not just all the celebrations.
Breathe. Move your body. Go outside. Rest.
These moments of quiet time matter just as much as all the festivities and fun.
⨠Ask for support if you need it.
Whether itâs a friend, partner, or therapist, reaching out is a sign of strength and not weakness.
đIn the build up to Christmas, be gentle and kind with yourself. Do things at your own pace and within your budget. Donât think that everyone else is better planned, more organised.
đIf you need some time to explore what Christmas means to you and how you are feeling, contact Help to Heal and give yourself a secure space to help prepare YOU!