Botley Hypnotherapy

Botley Hypnotherapy Learn to relax and deal with anxiety or stress. Lose weight or stop smoking. Get help with your fear or phobia. Thinking of training to be a Hypnotherapist?

Contact me for details of obtaining your diploma and advanced diploma.

I am delighted to announce the first five students to achieve their supervision diplomas in 2025. The NCH accredited cou...
11/11/2025

I am delighted to announce the first five students to achieve their supervision diplomas in 2025. The NCH accredited course is extremely rigorous with students having to demonstrate an excellent range of skills and experience. Well done to Natasha Pester, Adele Parr, Sophie Fletcher, Alison Gifford and Louisa Coleby. The next course is starting in the New Year with a student already enrolled. For more information see www.botleyhypnotherapy.com or contact me on 07553 973677

I'm always grateful for positive feedback, especially when the client admits she was a little sceptical to begin with.
31/08/2025

I'm always grateful for positive feedback, especially when the client admits she was a little sceptical to begin with.

Congratulation to Amanda Hall HPD DipCAH receiving her certificate in NLP. Amanda completed her certificate after qualif...
02/05/2025

Congratulation to Amanda Hall HPD DipCAH receiving her certificate in NLP. Amanda completed her certificate after qualifying as a clinical hypnotherapist in 2024 and was delighted to meet up with her classmates of 2024, Mark, Anna and Karen.

If you are interested in training as a hypnotherapist, please contact me at www.botleyhypntherapy.com or message me at info@botleyhypnotherapy.com

I was delighted to present Lizzie Elshaw with her NLP Certificate at the end of our training day in April. Neuro Linguis...
06/04/2025

I was delighted to present Lizzie Elshaw with her NLP Certificate at the end of our training day in April. Neuro Linguistic Programming is a great addition to Ericksonian hypnotherapy. Anyone thinking of adding an NLP Certificate to their HPD Diploma can contact me at www.botleyhypnotherapy.com for further details

Huge congratulations to the latest students from the Botley School of Hypnotherapy (UK Academy of Therapeutic Arts and S...
19/01/2025

Huge congratulations to the latest students from the Botley School of Hypnotherapy (UK Academy of Therapeutic Arts and Sciences) to achieve their two diplomas. The first is the NCH's Practitioners diploma and second is the UK Academies Clinical Advanced diploma. Mark Pavitt, Amanda Hall and Annaliese Wrixton studied and practiced over a year and submitted a portfolio which was externally moderated by the qualifying authorities. If you are interested in changing your career or learning about how hypnotherapy changes peoples lives contact Ian Fielder at info@botleyhypnotherapy.com of go to my website www.botleyhypnotherapy.com

Today is World Menopause DayWhether it's emotional shifts, changes in libido, or increased worries, hormonal change brin...
18/10/2024

Today is World Menopause Day
Whether it's emotional shifts, changes in libido, or increased worries, hormonal change brings challenges that can strain even the strongest partnerships. But the good news is, with the right guidance and support, you and your partner can navigate this journey together.

Let me help by booking an appointment by calling 01489 787170, See www.botleyhypnotherapy.com for further details..

I am looking forward to speaking at this years Hypnosis Convention being held in November on the 15th - 17th. If you are...
21/08/2024

I am looking forward to speaking at this years Hypnosis Convention being held in November on the 15th - 17th. If you are intending on going, let me know and I can give you a discount code , entitling you to 10% off the price.

I am excited to say that I will be presenting at this years major Hypnotherapy Conference in November later this year. T...
08/04/2024

I am excited to say that I will be presenting at this years major Hypnotherapy Conference in November later this year. The presentation will focus on how a narcissist operates and the devastating effect it has on the empath (their victim). The Clash’s 1980s hit single, ‘Should I stay or should I go’ and the chorus; ‘Should I stay or should I go now? If I go, there will be trouble. And if I stay, it will be double’. epitomizes the terrible dilemma faced by the person who is being gaslit. I will use case studies to demonstrate how we can help the empath and suggest practical treatments to improve self-esteem and confidence. I will support my presentation with evidence and studies to determine that narcissists have insight into their personality and reputation. I will show why narcissists rarely change, mostly because they don’t want to because they choose their lifestyle due to their lack of self-awareness. I will help dispel why some research shows that if narcissists received true feedback, they would change.

I am delighted to announce that the Botley School of Hypnotherapy is now running the NCH Supervisors Course. Originally ...
02/04/2024

I am delighted to announce that the Botley School of Hypnotherapy is now running the NCH Supervisors Course. Originally run as a central London course it has now been transferred to authorized Training Providers. Please contact me if you need further details of the course. info@botleyhypnotherapy.com

My current students studying to become Clinical Hypnotherapists were totally inspired on seeing past student, Zam Dryer,...
24/03/2024

My current students studying to become Clinical Hypnotherapists were totally inspired on seeing past student, Zam Dryer, receive her two diplomas (the NCH diploma in hypnotherapy practice, HPD and the UK Academy's Clinical Advanced Diploma, DipCAH) from me in the clinic yesterday. Zam is continuing her studies and is working towards her certificate in NLP. If you are interesting in a career change or wishing to learn more about yourself, please go to my website www.botleyhypnotherapy.com

An interesting article published in the Guardian Newspaper regarding a hypnotherapist treating a doctor successfully for...
16/02/2024

An interesting article published in the Guardian Newspaper regarding a hypnotherapist treating a doctor successfully for her IBS. Monty Lyman is a doctor and the author of The Painful Truth
Tue 1 Feb 2022 12.00 GMT
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“Close your eyes and breathe normally,” the therapist said. Here I was – a doctor trained in the western school of rational inquiry, empirical evidence and, dare I say it, snobbish cynicism – being hypnotised. But I’d lived with irritable bowel syndrome (IBS) for as long as I could remember, with abdominal cramps bringing regular discomfort and occasional agony. Medications and dietary changes had done absolutely nothing.

I was aware of the growing evidence for hypnotherapy’s effectiveness for various painful conditions, but when I sat down on the hypnotherapist’s couch and closed my eyes for the first time, it felt more like a prayer of desperation than a reasoned treatment decision.

Through words of suggestion, my hypnotherapist gently guided my attention across my body for about 10 minutes. I felt as though I was selectively shining a torch on sensations I never pay any attention to: the heaviness of my feet, the sound of my breathing. He then pulled my attention down to my sore, cramping abdomen and used imagery to change the way I saw my pain.

“Picture your intestines as though they are a river,” he said. “Now, it might seem like a fast stream of rocky rapids, but instead imagine it as the gentle Thames, with languidly moving punts gently drifting downstream.” Over the following weeks, I could still feel painful sensations during flare-ups, but the pleasant imagery I was now associating with IBS was beginning to change my experience of it. It was as though I could take a step back and look at my own pain as an observer.

My hypnotherapist treats many clients for phobias, and I wondered whether a similar process was at work with my pain. I used to visualise it like a threatening-looking spider. But now, instead of fleeing into another room or trying to thwack it with a newspaper, I could gently pick it up and rehome it in the garden. After a few weeks of practising self-hypnosis, the pain began to wane, and after a couple of months it completely stopped. To this day, no IBS symptoms have returned.

This experience began to rock the foundation of my belief that pain is an accurate measure of injury. On the surface, this seems to make sense, but if we look more closely it’s clear that the relationship between pain and injury is not at all linear. Severe tissue damage can occur without pain: we have all heard stories of soldiers in the heat of battle completely anaesthetised to their missing limb. Pain can also occur without any injury – even without any tissue, as seen in the surprisingly common phenomenon of phantom limb pain in amputees. And all of us have some sense that the same injury is more painful when your mood is low, or if the harm is caused by another person in a threatening situation.

If pain were a reflex, a simple signaling system from the body to the brain, then we should always and only feel pain when our tissue is damaged, with the pain directly proportional to the extent of injury. Pain only begins to make sense when you understand a fundamental, revolutionary truth that modern pain science is revealing: pain is a protector, not a detector. Pain is an executive decision made by our brain outside our conscious control, to tell our conscious mind that we are in danger and to motivate us to protect our body. Where another more important survival priority trumps this – take the soldier on the battlefield fighting for their life – the brain might decide not to create pain at all, or to delay it to a later time.

In most cases of short-term – or “acute” – pain, hurt is usually an accurate indicator of harm. You shut your laptop on your thumb and it hurts; you slam it in a car door and it hurts more. But the link between hurt and harm begins to wane the longer pain persists. At least a fifth of most populations today live with persistent – also called chronic – pain. Persistent pain ruins millions of lives, but it was only recognised as a disease in its own right in 2019 and is often glossed over at medical schools.

In many cases of persistent pain the initial injury has long since healed. Through a mechanism called central sensitisation, the brain has become overprotective and pain becomes “wired” in. I am not for one minute saying that persistent pain is “all in your head” – an issue of incorrect thoughts. Rather it is neurological, as real as epilepsy.

But how could this help us deal with pain? It comes down to a simple formula: to rewire your brain out of long-term pain, you need to persistently provide it with evidence of safety and reduce evidence of threat. It’s a matter of gradually calming down an overprotective brain, letting it know that the body is safe.

To my surprise, I found hypnotherapy a useful vehicle for this, but there are many other evidence-based ways to make the brain feel safer in its body. One example is movement – from exercise to knitting – that provides your brain with data that your body is strong and safe.

Still, most people – including doctors – have an outdated idea of what pain is and why it exists, although public outreach is slowly changing that. Understanding how pain really works is the first step to truly managing it.

Monty Lyman is a doctor and the author of The Painful Truth

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