13/11/2025
🌿 Understanding Anxiety, and How It Can Become Our Friend
Anxiety is something that so many of us experience, that racing heart, the tightness in the chest, the feeling that something terrible is about to happen. But have you ever stopped to think about why this happens inside your body?
When we feel anxious or fearful, our central nervous system activates what’s known as the fight or flight response. This is our body’s ancient survival mechanism, designed to protect us from danger. Adrenaline floods through the body, our heart rate increases, our breathing becomes shallow, our muscles tense, all to prepare us to fight or to run.
In the right circumstances, this response is incredibly helpful, it’s our body’s way of keeping us safe. In many ways, anxiety is our friend, gently alerting us that something may need our attention.
However, in today’s world, we are constantly bombarded with bad news, noise, busyness and stress. Our nervous system doesn’t always know the difference between real physical danger and the stress of daily life. So, it keeps us stuck in that “fight or flight” mode, creating ongoing feelings of anxiety, fear, and overwhelm.
But here’s where a shift in perspective can help. When we begin to see anxiety as a messenger rather than an enemy, we can start to work with it instead of against it. By soothing the nervous system through deep breathing, gentle movement, yoga, meditation, or time in nature, we begin to calm the body’s signals and remind ourselves that we are safe.
This subject is very personal to me. Many years ago, I suffered with horrendous panic attacks on a daily basis. It started around the time I realised that I was solely responsible for bringing up my four children, running a home, and paying all the bills, and the full weight of that responsibility hit me hard. The panic became so overwhelming that it took over my life for a while.
But through seeking help, learning about what panic attacks actually were, and understanding the science behind them, I began to take my power back. I started to use different tools, breath work, mindfulness, movement, and slowly, I turned it around. The very thing that once terrified me actually became one of my greatest teachers.
It helped me to become more aware, more compassionate with myself, and more conscious of how to care for my own health and nervous system. Exercise became one of my biggest tools, it helped release the excess adrenaline and calm my mind.
So if you’re struggling with anxiety right now, please remember, you’re not broken. Your body is just doing its best to protect you. With the right tools, patience, and understanding, anxiety can become your greatest guide, leading you back to balance, strength, and self-awareness.
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