Stop Being Stuck

Stop Being Stuck Targeted Hypnotherapy for busy Professionals to Conquer your Fears, bad Habits and Anxieties

Workload, control, reward, community, fairness and values - according to Maslach and Leiter those are the key organisati...
12/11/2025

Workload, control, reward, community, fairness and values - according to Maslach and Leiter those are the key organisational factors that can lead to burnout if they aren’t aligned.

Does that sound pretty grim?

At first sight, those six areas are highly influenced by the organisation you work for, right?

Or as a business owner, they are driven by the type of business you run and your clients.

So if you feel like you are burning out, do you have to leave your job?

It’s what I did when I headed to my first burnout.

When I headed into my second I realised that doing that every time I was burning out what not sustainable.

So what can you do instead?

1️⃣ Boundaries: Learn to say ‘no’. Gracefully, kindly and in collaboration with those who are asking.

2️⃣ Fulfil your needs: What do I actually need to be ok? And how can I make sure I do fulfil those needs (you might need number 1 first).

3️⃣ Re-learn to experience joy: Often, we’re so deep down in the rabbit hole that we can’t even remember what joy feels like.

Stop, take 1 minute and put some hand cream.

How does the cream smell?

How does the cream feel?

Can you give yourself a little hand massage?

How does your skin feel afterwards (if you don’t put half of the tube)?

Getting back to yourself can start small.

A little snowball, turning into something much bigger!



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10/11/2025

“I don’t feel like hypnotherapy will work for me. What can I do?”

Or even worse: “I had hypnotherapy before and it didn’t do much, I didn’t feel any different.”

These are the three things you need to do to get what you want out of your hypnotherapy sessions:

1️⃣ Have an open mind: Some things might be a little strange at first 🙃

2️⃣ Follow my instructions: Do what I tell you to do 👉🏻

3️⃣ Be honest and tell me the first thing that comes to mind: Because that usually comes from the unconscious mind 😶‍🌫️

Everyone can follow those, they are that simple.

If you had hypnosis in the past and you didn’t feel much, that’s perfectly normal.

There are different levels of trance.

Some people naturally go deeper; others don’t.

I don’t work with deep trance levels.

So it’s totally fine if you don’t go deep.

Let me know if you want to know more! 👇🏻

Do you believe only middle-aged successful careerists are burning out?Over the last year, that couldn’t be further from ...
06/11/2025

Do you believe only middle-aged successful careerists are burning out?

Over the last year, that couldn’t be further from the truth.

I came across an article on the 2025 burnout report and learned that, in fact, 18-24-year-olds are most likely to be absent due to burnout.

Overall, 9 in 10 people experience high or extreme levels of pressure or stress in the last year.

So the “good news”, that in the age range of 45+ the people who needed time off is decreasing, doesn’t really hit home.

And it makes me wonder how this young generation will be able to cope when the demands of a family and/ or ageing parents are added to the mix.

To be honest, I don’t have an answer.

And it does confirm that the work I am doing, to educate and empower my clients to live a successful life while staying true to who they are and what their purpose is in life.

So please, take a break, do something for yourself, even if it’s just 5 minutes!



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Happy Bonfire Night, aka Guy Fawkes Night, aka The Fifth! To everyone who doesn't know about bonfire night: It's the cel...
05/11/2025

Happy Bonfire Night, aka Guy Fawkes Night, aka The Fifth!

To everyone who doesn't know about bonfire night: It's the celebration of a failed plot to assassinate King James I in 1605. It's celebrated with lots of fireworks and, as you might have guessed from the name, bonfires.

Carrying burning crosses through the street isn't the norm. But Lewes also commemorates the memory of 17 Protestant martyrs burnt at the stake for their faith during the Marian Persecutions. And this is where I took this picture.

Funny socks improve your mental health! 🧦Makes sense, right?It’s all about the little joys in life.Yes, it’s great to sa...
04/11/2025

Funny socks improve your mental health! 🧦

Makes sense, right?

It’s all about the little joys in life.

Yes, it’s great to save up and prepare for those big holidays that you anticipate for months in advance.

Booking the next trip just after coming back from one is a great way to keep me going for the time in between.

And we also need the little bits of joy throughout the day.

For me, those are many of my hot drinks: The matcha lattes, the teas and the coffees. ☕

And also my funny and colourful socks: Pink with bananas, llamas, Christmas baubles, foxes and the great philosopher of the last century (Yoda).

I have them all.

How do you add a little more fun and joy to your day-to-day life?



Picture: My newest addition to my collection. Super soft and comfortable bamboo socks from Jeannette Jones at Anygreenwilldo (yes, she sells them online as well in time for Christmas)

My AI thinks I’m “Empowering”!Stella James (The Holistic Horses Hub) shared her conversation with her AI (she calls him ...
30/10/2025

My AI thinks I’m “Empowering”!

Stella James (The Holistic Horses Hub) shared her conversation with her AI (she calls him Rupert) about what word he thinks describes her best. 🤖

So I had to give it a go myself. And I’m very pleased with the result.

I enjoy empowering clients rather than waving a magic wand and making their problems disappear for them. 🪄

It feels so much better to have someone helping you along the way, in the knowledge that next time, you don’t need them anymore.

Yes, my favourite clients are the ones I never see again.

We do the therapy, I help them make a shift to get unstuck and give them a toolbox to work with.

Next time they are stuck, they go back to their toolbox and get whatever is needed to get going again.

This is my approach, whether I work with a client who wants therapy around their fear of public speaking or who is looking for a coach to help them with their current crisis.

Have you asked your AI what word they think summarises you the best? What did you get?



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“Your business is who you needed back then.” - Lucy GibsonI caught up with Lucy from https://www.positivelysimple.uk/ to...
28/10/2025

“Your business is who you needed back then.” - Lucy Gibson

I caught up with Lucy from https://www.positivelysimple.uk/ today, and talking about our experiences in life and how those shaped our businesses, that’s what she said.

I shared how I was heading towards my second burnout and realised that I needed to make a major change, as going on another sabbatical every time I was burning out was not sustainable.

What would I have needed at that time?
1️⃣ Someone to help me structure the mess in my head 🤯
2️⃣ Someone to hold my hand 🫲🏻
3️⃣ Someone with an open ear 👂🏻
4️⃣ Someone with practical tools that make a difference 🛠️
5️⃣ Someone to cheer me on 🎉

I had no idea that a coach could do all of this.

Luckily, I did reach out and asked for help.

I found Dr Jane Lewis, who taught me how to transform my life and so much more.

And now I can do the same for other people.

Get in touch if your life is falling apart and you need help in putting it back together.

“I’ve carried this all my life; how can it be gone so easily and quickly?”I did release a limiting belief with a client ...
23/10/2025

“I’ve carried this all my life; how can it be gone so easily and quickly?”

I did release a limiting belief with a client last week around her fear of public speaking.

It blew her mind how fast and easy it was.

And this was her question after the process that took about 10 minutes.

It’s true, we create issues in our unconscious mind as children or at a young age.

And we hold on to them as we simply don’t know how to let go.

We’re stuck!

It doesn’t have to be this way.

There are many tools and techniques you can use to let go of what holds you back.

If you are sick and tired of your fear of stepping into the light and showing who you truly are, send me a message.



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If I were someone else, I’d slap myself!If someone else would talk to me like I talk to myself, I’d tell them to …🙋🏻‍♀️ ...
21/10/2025

If I were someone else, I’d slap myself!

If someone else would talk to me like I talk to myself, I’d tell them to …

🙋🏻‍♀️ Telling yourself you are stupid?
🙋🏻‍♀️ Beating yourself up for a little mistake?
🙋🏻‍♀️ Using words for yourself you’d never say to someone else?

It’s so common to be your worst critic!

The problem is: Your unconscious mind always listens and takes everything personally.

And your unconscious mind is like a 3- to 5-year-old.

Would you talk like this to a child?

Be kind to yourself!

Notice how you talk to yourself, and when you do say something hurtful, stop and apologise.

‘Please forgive me’ are very powerful words 💜



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17/10/2025

What to do when a day doesn't have enough hours...

And clearly yesterday I didn't have the space to actually post the video. And that's ok ☺️

I went from ‘Excess fat’ to ‘Moderately lean’ in 4.5 months after working on it for 5 years!Last Saturday, I got my body...
15/10/2025

I went from ‘Excess fat’ to ‘Moderately lean’ in 4.5 months after working on it for 5 years!

Last Saturday, I got my body composition measured at Solent University.

I had dropped 2.75 kg of body fat while maintaining all of my muscle (which, according to the PhD student who did the test, is ‘quite rare’).

So what changed in the last months after having made what felt like little progress over the last years?

I hired a coach!

I already knew a lot about exercise and nutrition, and realised that despite all my knowledge, I don’t make the progress I should for the effort I’m putting in.

So what did she do that changed everything?

1️⃣ She showed me my blind spots: The areas I didn’t know I should change, and especially the ones I didn’t want, as I had gotten too comfortable with them.
2️⃣ Accountability: I knew that every other week, someone would be measuring my waist and hips.
3️⃣ Support: Whenever I had a wobble and wanted to change everything, I could check back in with someone (who usually told me: Just keep going).

Don’t get me wrong, it wasn’t all her. I still needed to put in the work:

✅ Follow the diet (which wasn’t a big change from what I already did)
✅ Put in the blood, sweat and tears in the gym (mainly sweat)
✅ Trust the process and follow her guidance (which was probably the most difficult

And this is what a coach does for you: Help you find your answers, keep you consistent and cheer you on along the way.

As long as you show up, put in the work and trust the process.

Are you stuck in an area of your life?

Especially in one where you feel you believe you have the answers and still don’t make progress?

Let me know, and we can get you unstuck!

13/10/2025

Congratulations Lucy! 🎉
uk won my 60-minute debrief session, which I’m giving away for last Friday’s World Mental Health Day.

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