24/11/2025
🌿 Perinatal OCD.
The intrusive thoughts can feel overwhelming.
And can occur during pregnancy or after birth, where your brain is working hard to protect you and your baby… but sometimes it goes into over-alert, creating unwanted, frightening thoughts (obsessions) and rituals (compulsions) that feel impossible to ignore.
You might experience:
• Intrusive fears about germs, illness, or contamination
• Doubts like “Did I check the baby? Did I do that right?”
• Terrifying thoughts about harm coming to your baby
• Avoiding situations that trigger fear — even caring for your baby at times
These thoughts feel real and distressing — but they do not reflect who you are as a parent.
💛 When you’ve experienced trauma — including birth trauma — your nervous system stays on alert.
OCD can step in as a way of trying to keep you and your baby safe… but in a way that becomes exhausting and consumes your time, energy and peace.
🌱 There is support which can help you recover -
⭐️Calming your nervous system
⭐️Understanding why OCD shows up (unmet needs + stress)
⭐️Separating you from the OCD voice — the “bully” thoughts
⭐️Gentle trauma healing
⭐️Practising new, calmer responses
⭐️Rebuilding your emotional needs: support, rest, confidence, connection
You deserve to feel calm, connected and confident in caring for your baby.
If this resonates, reaching out for help takes courage and can be the first step toward feeling like yourself again. 🤍