I am Calm

I am Calm Helping midlife humans feel calm, safe & like themselves again. Breathe, move & rest your way back to balance — and remember who you were before the stress.

Life feels quite full at the moment. Not in a dramatic way, just that sense of always having something to think about, s...
24/11/2025

Life feels quite full at the moment. Not in a dramatic way, just that sense of always having something to think about, something to organise, something to hold for other people. I’ve noticed that when life gets busy, I start rushing without meaning to. My breath gets a little shallow and my shoulders creep up without me realising.

Last week was crazy busy with a weekend away, my birthday, my step-mother moving into a home and my son's 18th. A mix of lovely and not-so-lovely, but very, very busy.

So this morning I just stopped for one minute, pulled my wellies off and let go of everything. One slow breath out and the whole day felt different.

If life feels full for you too, you’re definitely not on your own.

The light was so gentle this morning. I stopped under the tree for a moment and just watched the sun coming up over the ...
23/11/2025

The light was so gentle this morning. I stopped under the tree for a moment and just watched the sun coming up over the field. It felt calm in a way that doesn’t ask for anything, just a quiet reminder to slow down a little and settle myself before the week begins.

I think Sundays are good for that. Even a few minutes of stillness can make such a difference. If today feels busy or a bit heavy, see if you can find one small pause somewhere. Let the breath soften a touch, feel your feet on the ground, and let everything else drift to the edges for a moment.

Sometimes that’s all we need to feel a bit more steady.

One thing that comes up a lot in the work I do is how quickly the breath reacts to stress. Most people think of stress a...
22/11/2025

One thing that comes up a lot in the work I do is how quickly the breath reacts to stress. Most people think of stress as something happening in the mind, but the breath is usually where the first changes appear. It shifts long before we consciously realise that life has started to feel a bit full.

A busy week or a run of long days often pulls the breath high into the chest. It’s the body preparing you to stay alert and keep moving. Nothing dramatic, just a steady holding pattern. The difficulty is when the breath stays like that for days or even weeks. Your system doesn’t really get a chance to settle. You can feel wired and exhausted at the same time, or a bit foggy, or more reactive than usual without knowing why.

A simple place to start is with the out-breath. Not in a technical way. Just noticing it. The exhale is the part that encourages the body to soften a little. Even a few natural breaths with your attention on the out-breath can make you feel more grounded.

If your week has been a bit full or you’ve found yourself running on autopilot, try paying attention to your exhale today. It’s a small thing, but it can make a real difference.

I was thinking today about how easy it is to slip into a kind of automatic pilot without meaning to. You wake up tired, ...
21/11/2025

I was thinking today about how easy it is to slip into a kind of automatic pilot without meaning to. You wake up tired, you get on with things, and before you know it the whole week has passed and you can’t quite remember where your energy went.

When I was out in the frost this morning, it struck me how quickly the body settles when you give it the smallest bit of breathing room. Nothing dramatic. Just a fuller breath or a minute of cold air. It reminded me how often we miss these quieter moments because there’s always something else to do, or somewhere to be.

Most people I work with tell me the same thing. They feel stretched, a bit foggy, a bit pulled around, but they keep going because that’s what life seems to demand. When you slow down even slightly, you start to notice how your body has been trying to get your attention.

There’s no big message here. Just a reminder that you don’t need huge changes for things to feel different. A gentler breath, a few steps outside or a moment to arrive in your day can make more of a difference than people realise.

I’ve been noticing lately how many people are living much closer to burnout than they realise. Not the dramatic, falling...
20/11/2025

I’ve been noticing lately how many people are living much closer to burnout than they realise. Not the dramatic, falling-apart kind you read about, but the quiet version that creeps in without much fuss. It’s more like a slow drifting away from yourself, and your body usually starts whispering long before anything actually feels “wrong.”

There are some early signs that show up, and most of us brush them off as normal life. Things like waking up tired even after sleeping, feeling more irritable or touchy than usual, overreacting to minor things, forgetting words or simple tasks, or catching yourself breathing shallowly for long stretches without noticing. There’s also that strange mix of feeling wired and flat at the same time, or the pressure behind the eyes that doesn’t really go away. A lot of people start reaching for sugar, coffee or screens just to keep going, and it becomes part of the routine without thinking too much about it.

The trouble is, these little signs tend to stack up. We all adapt so quickly and just keep pushing on, and before you know it, you’re several steps further down the road than you meant to be. None of this means you’re doing anything wrong; it’s just the body trying to get your attention in the only ways it can.

The encouraging bit is that you don’t need to overhaul your entire life to interrupt that drift. Sometimes it’s as simple as a slow exhale, standing outside in the cold air for a minute, leaving your phone behind on a walk or just softening your shoulders when you realise they’ve crept up again. These tiny resets really do help bring your system back to a steadier state.

If any of this sounds familiar, you are definitely not on your own. Your system is probably just asking for a little space. I’ll share a bit more about this over the next few days because there are some really simple things that make a big difference once you start noticing them.

I’ve noticed recently how overstimulated so many of us are without realising it. Not overwhelmed in a dramatic way, just...
19/11/2025

I’ve noticed recently how overstimulated so many of us are without realising it. Not overwhelmed in a dramatic way, just constantly taking in more than our minds and bodies can process. The noise, the notifications, the juggling, the tabs open everywhere, the subtle pressure to reply quickly and keep up. Even when we think we’re resting, our nervous system is still slightly switched on.

I caught myself doing it the other day. I sat down with a cup of tea and without thinking I reached for my phone. Not because I needed anything, but because my brain has become so used to being fed. It made me realise how rarely we’re truly off, even for a minute or two.

If you’re feeling a bit over-full lately, you’re not imagining it. Modern life doesn’t give us natural pauses anymore, so we have to create them. A quiet moment. A slow breath. A minute without input. It doesn’t sound like much, but it makes a difference. Your nervous system notices even the smallest gaps in the day.

I’ve been thinking a lot about burnout recently, not the big dramatic collapse but the slow, steady drift that most peop...
18/11/2025

I’ve been thinking a lot about burnout recently, not the big dramatic collapse but the slow, steady drift that most people don’t even notice happening. It’s that gradual wearing down that shows up quietly in the background of everyday life. A bit more tiredness than usual, a bit less patience, a bit more tension in the shoulders, and a sense that you’re pushing through rather than moving with any real ease. It’s never one big moment. It’s a handful of late nights, or constantly feeling “on,” or telling yourself you’ll rest when things calm down even though they never really do.

Because it doesn’t come with flashing lights, we tend to minimise it. We keep going because we have responsibilities, or because everyone else seems to manage, or because stopping feels harder than pushing through. But this slow drift is just as real as any dramatic burnout moment. It’s your body quietly asking for a different pace. It’s your nervous system nudging you that it’s been switched on for too long. Most people don’t realise they’re in it until they look back and notice how long it’s been since they last felt like themselves.

If any of this feels familiar, you’re not alone. So many people are living in this slow drift without realising it. And the good news is you don’t have to wait for a crash to do something about it. Small shifts help. A slower breath. A gentler pace. A moment of honesty with yourself. It all counts. You can step back into yourself long before you reach the point of exhaustion.

A little thing I haven’t really mentioned…I’ve actually started a podcast.It’s nothing fancy or polished, and I haven’t ...
18/11/2025

A little thing I haven’t really mentioned…

I’ve actually started a podcast.

It’s nothing fancy or polished, and I haven’t shared it properly anywhere yet, which is very unlike me but also somehow very me.

It’s called The Calm Conversations, and it’s basically me talking about the things I’m learning, the things I’m noticing in the people I work with, and the small shifts that make life feel a bit lighter.

Short episodes.
Gentle pace.
Nothing overwhelming.

I made it because sometimes we just need a calm voice in our ear, especially when we’re tired or overstimulated or just trying to get through the week.

Just thought it was time I actually said out loud that it exists 🤣

If you want to have a listen, it’s here...

I’m really excited to be guiding a breathwork session at the Transform & Reset Retreat in the beautiful Chew Valley on S...
28/10/2025

I’m really excited to be guiding a breathwork session at the Transform & Reset Retreat in the beautiful Chew Valley on Saturday 8 November.

It’s such a gentle day - a chance to exhale before the busyness of the festive season begins.

The setting is stunning, the group is small, and every detail is designed to help you switch off and reset.

If you’ve been craving space to breathe, move and recharge, this is the perfect opportunity.

There are still a few places left - all the details are here:
👉 https://theholistichealthcoach.co.uk/day-retreat/

🌿 Transform & Reset
🗓 Saturday 8 November
📍 Chew Valley

Sometimes life feels full, but not in the way we want.We wake up already tense, like we’re chasing the day before it’s e...
28/10/2025

Sometimes life feels full, but not in the way we want.

We wake up already tense, like we’re chasing the day before it’s even begun.

If that’s you, it’s not your fault - your body is just still running the old pattern of “keep going.”

Start with something tiny today: one pause, one deeper breath, one moment that says, I’m allowed to slow down. 🌿

“I’m here because of you.”That’s what a new client said to me today.At first, I wasn’t sure what she meant.Then she expl...
28/10/2025

“I’m here because of you.”

That’s what a new client said to me today.

At first, I wasn’t sure what she meant.
Then she explained that she’d been quietly reading my posts for a while, and something in them struck a chord.

I can’t tell you how much it meant to hear that.

It’s not easy putting yourself out there, wondering if your words are landing - or if anyone’s even seeing them at all.

But this reminded me why I share what I do.
My energy and presence are at the heart of everything I offer - and if even one person feels that through a post, that’s enough. 🌿

Even if your mind forgets, your body knows the way back.A slow breath, a stretch, a pause, they all remind your system w...
26/10/2025

Even if your mind forgets, your body knows the way back.

A slow breath, a stretch, a pause, they all remind your system what calm feels like.

You don’t need a perfect routine, just small moments that signal “safe.” 🌿

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