05/09/2025
“Secure”, “Disorganised”, “Anxious” or “Avoidant”…
…how our caregivers have held us, or abandoned us, has a deep impact on subsequent experiences of relationship. These Attachments in early childhood inform our ability to let go of unhealthy relationships or dynamics.
This is an original story/image poem about attachment and relationship from Sometimes Trauma.
In the UK, children at 8 go on a residential school trip for a working week. For many, it's the first time away from home.
Sometimes, being prepared to defend our inner child takes a "Dark Night" moment. The process of personal growth is hard for us all.
This poem was written at a time of great change in my life, as I became prepared to defend, (and change), what I was allowing myself to let in and what I knew I needed to let go of.
https://youtu.be/-sD_7iq9NPA
"Sometimes, Trauma" is an organisation specialising in working with clients and therapists within the Trauma Therapy field, providing therapy, groups, one-to-one supervision, couple/family work and psychoeducation to those that can benefit from it.
You can find more information at www.sometimestrauma.com. This organisation is run by Hannah Duncan/(HanJan) who is a therapist with over 20 years' experience of working as a therapist and facillitator.
“Secure”, “Disorganised”, “Anxious” or “Avoidant”……how our caregivers have held us, or abandoned us, has a deep impact on subsequent experiences of relations...
