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Home Of Self Transformation Helping you Master the relationship with yourself & others to attract love, abundance and connection

11/12/2025

The Truth About Why Your Relationships Hurt ❤️

If you struggle in relationships, what you are really struggling with is the relationship you have with yourself. ✨

Most people walk into relationships carrying so much unhealed wounding that when they meet someone, they believe they have finally found the one. In that hope, they overlook how the other person is truly feeling.

We have all lived through the scars of disconnect in this time and space reality. Not many of us fully recover from it. Because the hurt happened in relationships, we assume the healing will also come from relationships.
But that is not the truth. 💭

If you want relationships that feel safe and secure, begin by asking yourself:

What is the relationship I have with myself
How safe and secure do I feel within me

This is the doorway into understanding what healthy relationships look like. You cannot have a healthy relationship unless you have a healthy relationship with yourself. That is the foundation. 🌱

When you understand this, everything shifts. The way you relate to yourself changes, and every relationship in your life changes as a result. 💫

If you want one of my Relationship Mastery videos, drop the word mastery below and I will send you the link. 🔑

11/12/2025

Our Retreats hold an extremely powerful space to begin shifting the trauma, pain and unresolved experiences that live in your body and keep recreating painful cycles in your life today.

It’s a chance to dive deep, experience the power of our 7 Laws of Self Transformation, witness the shifts of processing emotion and connect with like-minded souls in a safe and supportive space.

Our next retreat only has a few spaces left so don’t miss out.

Details:
27th Feb - 2nd March 2026
Lyonshall, Kington HR5 3JN
3 days, 3 nights

For more details or to save a space, comment “RETREAT” in the comments below ⬇️

Not able to make it, or want to go even deeper into your self transformation? Comment “MASTERCLASS” in the comments below to register a space on our free masterclass coming up on 4th January - where you can explore the work further, experience your own breakthroughs and understand how we help people transform their lives at HOST.

We look forward to connecting with each of you❤️

10/12/2025

For all my ADHD sufferers out there, this one is for you.❤️🫶

If you’re ready to say ‘yes’ to yourself, empower yourself to break free from repeating cycles, and give your happiness,...
10/12/2025

If you’re ready to say ‘yes’ to yourself, empower yourself to break free from repeating cycles, and give your happiness, peace and freedom what its really worth - then come and join our free online masterclass and find out how!

January 4th 6:30pm - How to heal the emotional root of your patterns and reconnect with the purpose of your soul, without feeling lost, confused or overwhelmed by your inner world.

Visit the link in our bio to register or comment “Register” below to save your space🌿

08/12/2025

Micheal’s testimonial outlines exactly what we do here at HOST, and the very reason this is the place to heal your pain and break your cycles for good.

At HOST we don’t work on the surface level - with mindset, affirmations or positive thinking.

We work with the root cause. The initial trauma. We get to the reason why your relationships, finances, family dynamic or self worth keep looping back into lack, disconnection, or breakdowns.

We do this through a combination of somatic modalities and Emotional Health & Shadow Work Coaching, through a unique framework that has transformed thousands of lives so far.

But it doesn’t stop with you. As Micheal explains, your transformation also becomes the permission for others around you. Whether you already are in dedication to helping others or you want to start a coaching business helping people transform their lives too - our Coaches program deepens your own healing enabling you to embody the work for yourself and your clients, qualifies you in several coaching modalities and helps you kick start and grow your coaching business.

Be one of the brave souls who don’t just accept their life, but create it!

Comment “more” below if you’d love to know more about what we do at HOST and how it can transform your life too.

Our next program enrolment is January 2026 the perfect way to start the year on a fresh - letting go of your limiting cycles in a Home Of Self Transformation.

🌹 A tale as old as time 🌹Happy 3rd wedding anniversary, sweetheartNow, always and forever. Grateful for you. Lost withou...
08/12/2025

🌹 A tale as old as time 🌹

Happy 3rd wedding anniversary, sweetheart

Now, always and forever.

Grateful for you. Lost without you.

Can't wait for more life with you.

When we become aware of our wounds, pain, density and emotional load - we get faced with a choice. - Try to ignore it an...
05/12/2025

When we become aware of our wounds, pain, density and emotional load - we get faced with a choice.

- Try to ignore it and move - which ends up in recreating the pain again and again (what you don’t heal, you recreate).

- Or take action. Face it head on. And be intentional with finding the freedom, clarity and healing that is on the other side.

This brave choice is what breaks cycles, heals relationships and creates life-changing transformations and shifts.

If you’re reading this you’re probably one of the brave souls ready and willing to turn your own wounds into medicine, comment “more” below to understand how.

         

The fastest way to attract true love is to fall in love with yourself first.To know yourself on the deepest level.To und...
01/12/2025

The fastest way to attract true love is to fall in love with yourself first.

To know yourself on the deepest level.
To understand your patterns, your wounds, your desires and your heart.

Because without self awareness and self acceptance, you will keep meeting your unhealed self through others. You will keep going in circles, mistaking your wounds for love and your triggers for truth.

The reality is this.
We only ever meet ourselves in the people we choose.
If you want a relationship that feels soft, nurturing, receptive and gentle, it has to begin within you.

Ask yourself today:
What is my relationship like with myself?
How deeply have I loved every part of who I am?

Because your deepest desires will always be reflected back through your partner. If you do not see yourself with love, you will keep attracting relationships that mirror your lack of it.

The fastest way to attract the right partner is to become the person you want to meet.

That is the relationship that transforms your life.
That is the relationship that expands you.
That is the relationship that opens the door to abundance, connection and true love.

If you are ready to heal your emotional body and return to yourself, click the link in my bio to begin your journey today.
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Can you feel it in you - that gentle nudge or sensation in the body that’s calling you deeper into your soul, trying to ...
28/11/2025

Can you feel it in you - that gentle nudge or sensation in the body that’s calling you deeper into your soul, trying to awaken a new depth to your life?

The question is are you going to listen to that, or ignore it?

It’s the brave souls who answer the gentle calling that not only heal deeply, but awaken a true purpose within.

You don’t need to carry the same wounds and worries into 2026, let now be your time✨

27/11/2025

One of the most profound effects of healing is how it changes the way you impact others.

Most people are carrying an internal fire that no one can see. When you begin to face your own pain and understand what you have been holding, you start to see life through a different lens.

You realise that everyone is navigating something. You see the deeper picture. You see the shared human experience beneath the surface.

As you heal what hurts you, you naturally become the safe space you once craved. Your presence settles others. Your softness helps them drop their guard. Your clarity becomes grounding for the people around you.

This is the passing on effect of healing.
The recognition that the only thing that ever separated us was pain.
And when you face that pain within yourself, you open the door for others to meet their own.

This is where true unity begins.
This is where connection becomes real.
This is where healing extends beyond you and into the lives you touch.

If you feel ready to heal your emotional body and reconnect with yourself in a deeper way, click the link in my bio to begin your journey today.
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