11/12/2025
The Truth About Why Your Relationships Hurt ❤️
If you struggle in relationships, what you are really struggling with is the relationship you have with yourself. ✨
Most people walk into relationships carrying so much unhealed wounding that when they meet someone, they believe they have finally found the one. In that hope, they overlook how the other person is truly feeling.
We have all lived through the scars of disconnect in this time and space reality. Not many of us fully recover from it. Because the hurt happened in relationships, we assume the healing will also come from relationships.
But that is not the truth. 💭
If you want relationships that feel safe and secure, begin by asking yourself:
What is the relationship I have with myself
How safe and secure do I feel within me
This is the doorway into understanding what healthy relationships look like. You cannot have a healthy relationship unless you have a healthy relationship with yourself. That is the foundation. 🌱
When you understand this, everything shifts. The way you relate to yourself changes, and every relationship in your life changes as a result. 💫
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