14/02/2026
Responding with care, not criticism
When we notice we are tired, overwhelmed, or struggling, our first response is often self-criticism:
• I should be coping better.
• Others manage fine.
• I just need to push through.
But stress isn’t a personal failing, it’s often a signal.
Responding with care might look like:
• slowing the pace slightly
• setting a boundary
• choosing rest instead of pushing
• being kinder in how we talk to ourselves
Support doesn’t always come from doing more. Sometimes it comes from responding differently.
For example, this week has been especially busy for me. Did I get everything completed that I had planned? The simple answer is No. However there were still many positives, so I am choosing to focus on those and move the remaining tasks to another day.
What would a kinder response to yourself look like today?