08/05/2020
so true, so important and needed
Resourcing Fathers, Resources Mothers. What benefits one person within the context of a relationship, benefits the other person as well.
A conversation I have A LOT, whether it be within the trainings I teach, or with colleagues or with friends - is about the profound lack of support available and accessible to MEN - in relation to the childbearing continuum.
Collectively and cross-culturally, we are asking the men to participate in pregnancy, birth and the postpartum period, in ways they never have before. The childbearing continuum has largely been women's domain until recently.
While it is beautiful for men to be actively involved in this journey of the childbearing continuum, and while I do believe it is part of our collective evolution as humanity for them to do so - I also understand that: It is profoundly challenging to OFFER something - that you have never before been OFFERED.
The men do not have TEMPLATES of how to show up and be with women during the childbearing continuum. The men most often do not have LIVING EXAMPLES of how to support women during the childbearing continuum. The men themselves often have NO SUPPORT during the childbearing continuum - BUT - are being relied upon as the main support for Mothers. It is a profound, modern-day conundrum to say the least.
I invited my friend William Green, to teach a free class to the Innate Traditions community, to address this very conundrum: Lifting the Veil - Engaging Men in Postpartum Support. To register: https://www.innatetraditions.com/free-online-class-lifting-the-veil-engaging-men-in-postpartum-support/
William is a Father and Grandfather, a Certified Health and Wellness Coach and a practitioner of the Rolf Method of Structural Integration, who has spent over 25 years, directly and indirectly, supporting midwives and doulas. William is now turning his attention to supporting men in our current time of change.
I hope you will join us for this groundbreaking class on May 12th at 12noon MST. https://www.innatetraditions.com/free-online-class-lifting-the-veil-engaging-men-in-postpartum-support/ to register. (It WILL be recorded for those who can not make it for the live class).
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