15/04/2026
Have you noticed that when something happens that fires you up, gets you angry, frustrated, feeling overwhelmed, scared or sad you act in ways or say things that you wouldn't normally? Well your reponse is a natural way of dealing with your emotions.
Our body is in stress mode, on high alert, ready to protect us. When this happens we tend to react to situations because our monkey brain has taken over, meaning we don't think logically about what is causing us to feel like that, it's our innate response.
However, when we react like this, it's not always the best way to respond and it can often leave us feeling annoyed or makes the situation worse.
Thinking of our emotions like a traffic light reminds us that in order to respond in a more appropriate way, we need to take a bit of time out. I don't mean for a long time, it can just be a few seconds or minutes.
What our body needs is time to regulate and bring calm so we can make more informed decisions and take action based on all the information we have.
It's not always easy to do and it takes lots of practice and conscious effort but the more we do it the easier it becomes.
For me, I find taking a few deep breaths really helps before I respond, or I have a clay cross anchor which I made last year at our Mothers Circle. If it's near me I feel it, feeling every detail on it, or when I see it it reminds me to take a few deep breaths.
The next time you have strong emotions why don't you take a few deep breaths, or walk away from the situation for a minute (if it's safe to do so). See if your body calms and if you respond differently to how you usually respond.
Or do you do this already? How do you keep calm during a storm?
If you try it, let me know how it goes for you.