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Online relationship therapy and trauma counselling with a BACP-accredited relationship and couples psychotherapist and counsellor.

26/01/2026

💔 Feeling overwhelmed by separation or divorce?

Separation isn’t just about legal or financial decisions — it’s an emotional journey too. Anger, grief, uncertainty, and stress can make communication and co-parenting much harder.

To mark Family Mediation Week 2026, the Family Mediation Council is running a free webinar to help people manage emotions during separation or divorce. This session shares practical tools to support emotional readiness, reduce conflict, and protect children’s wellbeing.

📅 When: Tuesday 27 January | 1pm–2pm
🔗 Read more and register: Managing Emotions During Divorce & Separation – FMC Webinar

Whether you’re separating, divorcing, or supporting someone going through it, this webinar offers compassionate guidance and strategies you can start using immediately.

23/01/2026

If you’re separating, or thinking about separating, you might be carrying a lot of questions right now.

Who will live where?
What will happen with the children?
How do we sort money, property – or even the family dog?

Next week is FMC Mediation Week (26–30 January) and there are free online webinars designed to help families understand their options and learn more about family mediation.

The sessions are run by the Family Mediation Council and are open to parents and individuals who want clear, practical information about:

making arrangements for children

sorting finances without going to court

reducing conflict during separation

I’ve shared more details and links to the free events here 👇
https://www.tandemmediation.co.uk/blog/free-online-events-to-help-families-navigate-separation-during-fmc-mediation-week-26-30-january

You don’t need to have all the answers — sometimes starting with information is enough.

24/12/2025

🎄 Merry Christmas from Tandem Therapy 🎄

Christmas can bring mixed emotions. If this season feels heavy or tender, you’re not alone.

Wishing you a gentle Christmas and kindness towards yourself as the year comes to a close ✨

14/12/2025

🎄 Relationships at Christmas can feel more stressful than joyful

The festive season brings closeness, traditions… and sometimes tension. Expectations, family dynamics, and emotional triggers can make even strong relationships feel challenging.

Our latest blog explores why relationships feel harder at Christmas and practical ways to manage stress, expectations, and emotional triggers.

Read the full blog here 👉
https://www.tandemtherapy.co.uk/post/relationships-at-christmas-how-to-manage-relationship-stress-expectations-and-emotional-triggers

08/12/2025

💬 Not sure if couples counselling is right for you or your partner?

Many people think therapy is only for relationships in crisis. In reality, lots of couples and individuals come to therapy because they feel stuck, emotionally disconnected, or unsure how to talk about what’s really going on.

You don’t need to be at breaking point.
You don’t even need to agree on whether therapy is the answer.

Couples counselling and relationship therapy can offer a calm, supportive space to:
✨ understand repeated patterns
✨ improve communication
✨ reconnect emotionally
✨ think more clearly about next steps

I’ve written a blog that gently explores how to know whether therapy might be right for you or your partner.

🔗 Read it here:
https://www.tandemtherapy.co.uk/post/how-do-i-know-if-couples-counselling-or-relationship-therapy-is-right-for-me-or-my-partner

27/11/2025

We’ve started using attachment styles as labels… and sometimes even as weapons.
“You’re avoidant.”
“You’re anxious.”
“You’re the problem.”

But attachment patterns were never meant to shame us—they were meant to explain us.
To help us understand why we panic… or pull away… or shut down when love feels risky.

In my latest blog, I explore how anxious and avoidant partners can actually support each other in moments of trigger, and why the real issue isn’t your attachment style—it’s the fear underneath.

If you’ve ever felt misunderstood, overwhelmed, or stuck in the same cycles, this one’s for you.
💛 Read it here:
https://www.tandemtherapy.co.uk/post/understanding-attachment-styles-in-relationships-why-we-ve-started-weaponising-them

14/11/2025

✨ Not all sparks are created equal. ✨

That flutter in your chest? That racing heart? Sometimes it’s chemistry… sometimes it’s just old patterns showing up. 💔

True love isn’t just excitementit’s emotional safety. The kind of love where you can be yourself, feel seen, and actually rest in the relationship. 🕊️

Discover the difference between chemistry and safety, and learn how to spot the love that heals rather than triggers you.

Read the full blog here 👉 https://www.tandemtherapy.co.uk/post/how-to-tell-the-difference-between-chemistry-and-emotional-safety-in-relationships

19/10/2025

💭 “Why do we keep fighting about the same things?”
It’s one of the most common questions couples ask when they come to therapy - and it’s often the key to understanding what’s really going on beneath the arguments.

The truth is, most fights aren’t about the surface issue. They’re about unspoken needs, fears, or feelings of not being heard.
In therapy, we slow things down, explore those patterns, and help couples reconnect through understanding rather than blame.

✨ I’ve just published a new blog that explores:
💬 Why couples repeat the same arguments
💬 How therapy helps you communicate differently
💬 A simple at-home reflection exercise to try tonight

And because small changes make the biggest difference, you can now download my free Couples Therapy Reflection Worksheet - five gentle questions designed to help you and your partner reconnect and talk in new ways.

📖 Read the blog here: https://www.tandemtherapy.co.uk/post/why-do-we-keep-fighting-about-the-same-things-how-couples-therapy-helps-you-break-the-cycle

📄 Download your free worksheet:https://b73cfa1d-f10d-4ab8-b9b3-2e099c8d8b4b.usrfiles.com/ugd/b73cfa_2b55e9068c9c42b38562cbb3bf89ed7a.pdf

You don’t have to stay stuck in the same cycle. Change begins with one new conversation. 💕

01/10/2025

💛 Has your relationship slipped into routine? 💛

It’s common for couples to feel distant over time - conversations become surface-level, intimacy fades, and you start missing the closeness you once shared. The good news? Distance doesn’t have to mean the end of connection.

In my latest blog, I share:
✨ Signs your relationship may be drifting
✨ Common causes of disconnection
✨ Practical “how to” tips to rebuild closeness
✨ How relationship therapy can help couples reconnect

👉 Read here: Rekindling Connection in Long-Term Relationships

Sometimes the smallest changes can make the biggest difference. If you’re ready to rediscover each other, this blog is for you. 🌿

17/09/2025

✨ Are these 3 digital habits secretly ruining your relationship? ✨

💭 Ever felt ignored because your partner can’t put their phone down?
💭 Been left hanging without explanation?
💭 Wondered why someone keeps you hooked with mixed signals?

These behaviours -phubbing, ghosting and breadcrumbing - can quietly erode trust, connection and emotional safety.

I’ve written a new blog to help you spot these relationship red flags in the digital age, and learn what you can do to protect your connection. 💕

👉 Read it here: https://www.tandemtherapy.co.uk/post/breadcrumbing-ghosting-and-phubbing-relationship-red-flags-in-the-digital-age

💌 If digital behaviours are bringing up doubts or anxiety in your relationship, I’m here to help:
📩 jo@tandemtherapy.co.uk

📞 07521037092

08/09/2025

✨ Is your relationship starting to feel a little… flat? ✨
You’re not alone- and better yet, you’re not stuck there.

Check out our latest blog: "Relationship Ruts Are Real: How to Reignite Love and Connection"
👉 Why relationships naturally fall into ruts
👉 How to recognize the subtle signs when connection fades
👉 Easy, everyday steps to bring your spark back

Because love isn’t about perfection - it’s about staying present, curious, and connected.
Read more ⬇
https://www.tandemtherapy.co.uk/post/relationship-ruts-are-real-how-to-reignite-love-and-connection

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Tuesday	9am - 8pm
Wednesday	9am - 8pm
Thursday	9am - 8pm
Friday	9am - 8pm
Saturday	9am - 1pm
Sunday	9am - 1pm

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