14/02/2026
❤ Valentines for Kids ❤
How can you make meaning for your child out of a holiday that seems to be about romance that children are not ready for?
Well, for starters, you could explain that actually the origin of Valentine’s Day isn’t exactly about romance and gifts.
Saint Valentine was a Christian clergy who went against the order of his ruler who had outlawed young marriage, and married people under the Christian faith in secret. When he was caught, he was imprisoned.
These origins speak empathy, kindness and goodness.These are actually wonderful lessons for children! Talk to your child about how they can celebrate this day by being kind and giving to all people, not just the ones they love the most, but even other classmates.
Besides commercialism, Valentine’s Day has also degenerated in school into a popularity contest. Who gets more cards etc! Kids can use these things to purposely or accidentally hurt others’ feelings. They may think, why should I be nice to or give a card to a classmate I don’t like very much?
This is a great opportunity to talk about how the world is made up of all kinds of people, and while you don’t have to like them all, you do need to be respectful and even kind to everyone.
Making a little card for everyone in the class brings into the conversation how important it is to be inclusive, and how much there is to be gained by spreading kindness.
Here’s to raising the next generation of caring, kind and empathic adults who can make this world a better place, not only on Valentine’s Day, but every day! 💗