Ian Deslow Counselling

Ian Deslow Counselling I offer online, face to face, walk & talk and phone therapy - NCPS accredited, Member of the BACP

My approach is to offer you a safe environment to be able to discuss whatever you wish, free from judgement, and together we can work towards your goals.

You don't have to be positive all the time, its okay to feel Angry,  Sad, AnnoyedFrustrated, Scared & AnxiousHaving Feel...
25/02/2026

You don't have to be positive all the time, its okay to feel
Angry, Sad, Annoyed
Frustrated, Scared & Anxious
Having Feelings doesn't make you a negative person, it makes you human.

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IanDeslowCounselling.co.uk

I offer face to face and walk & talk therapy locally, I offer online and phone counselling across the UK.

Today is "Emotional Health day" this day is to promote emotional wellbeing, celebrate  by spending thirty minutes doing ...
24/02/2026

Today is "Emotional Health day" this day is to promote emotional wellbeing, celebrate by spending thirty minutes doing one or all of the following:

🌼How you are feeling today? What might “looking after myself well today” look like?
🙂What sorts of things have a settling effect on you? Make a list of your top 3 (e.g. going for a walk outside, having a long bath, chatting with a friend).
🤩Think about any difficult feelings or unresolved issues that you carry around with you. Is it time to express them or let them go? Who can help you with this?
👍What might you do to nurture the important relationships in your life today, whether with family, friends or colleagues?
😃Make a plan to catch up properly with a good friend you haven’t seen for a while.
Plan a fun activity with family or friends, or something you find nurturing for yourself.
🙂Listen really well to those around you today.

IanDeslowCounselling.co.uk

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I offer face to face and walk & talk therapy locally, I offer online and phone counselling across the UK.

  This is your Monday morning reminder.You can handle whatever this week throws at you.IanDeslowCounselling.co.ukFollow ...
23/02/2026


This is your Monday morning reminder.
You can handle whatever this week throws at you.

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I offer face to face ans walk & talk therapy locally, I offer online nad phone counselling across the UK.


We all shine in our own way, no two people are the same.Celebrate our differences and be the person you want to be.Pleas...
22/02/2026

We all shine in our own way, no two people are the same.
Celebrate our differences and be the person you want to be.

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IanDeslowCounselling.co.uk

I offer face to face and walk & talk therapy locally, I offer online and phone counselling across the UK.

I found this great quote by Emile Zola.“We are like books.Most people only see our cover, the minority read only the int...
21/02/2026

I found this great quote by Emile Zola.

“We are like books.
Most people only see our cover,
the minority read only the introduction, many people believe the critics.
Few will know our content”

We all like to think we are not judging people, but we all do it, judge someone by their accent, weight or looks.
Try to not judge people and treat people how you would like to be treated.

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  is important, we can often be our own harshest critics, we can be harder on ourselves than others.We all make mistakes...
20/02/2026

is important, we can often be our own harshest critics, we can be harder on ourselves than others.
We all make mistakes and are imperfect, why do we hold ourselves to these impossible standards?
Next time you are being hard on yourself about a mistake etc. think, what would I say if someone else did this, would I be critical or supportive?

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IanDeslowCounselling.co.uk

I offer face to face and walk & talk therapy locally, i offer online and phone counselling across the UK.

Promise yourself...To stress less and smile more.To have strength and courage to venture outside of your comfort zone.To...
19/02/2026

Promise yourself...
To stress less and smile more.
To have strength and courage to venture outside of
your comfort zone.
To leave your past behind you and appreciate this moment.
Most importantly, promise yourself to always live a life YOU truly want to live.

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IanDeslowCounselling.co.uk

I offer face to face and walk & talk therapy locally, I offer online and phone counselling across the UK.

There is no such thing as perfection, so just be the best that you can be.We try and be perfect, all the time, but what ...
18/02/2026

There is no such thing as perfection, so just be the best that you can be.

We try and be perfect, all the time, but what if we didn't. What if we do the best we can in the circumstances, what if we tried to just do our best, would we all be happier.

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IanDeslowCounselling.co.uk

I offer face to face and walk & talk therapy locally, I offer online and phone counselling across the UK.

Today is National Random Acts of Kindness day, this is celebrated every February 17. It first originated in 1995 in Denv...
17/02/2026

Today is National Random Acts of Kindness day, this is celebrated every February 17. It first originated in 1995 in Denver, Colorado and in 2004, spread to New Zealand. The idea behind this celebration is to make the world a little brighter and better through little and simple kind gestures, words and actions.

IanDeslowCounselling.co.uk

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I offer face to face and walk & talk therapy locally, I offer online and phone counselling across the UK.

Building structure and routines ⏰Next week I head off to the island of Malta 🇲🇹 to take on the  This brings the end of a...
16/02/2026

Building structure and routines ⏰

Next week I head off to the island of Malta 🇲🇹 to take on the
This brings the end of a shortened training block from my last big event back in December. Blocks bring an element of structure and routine to training - which is something I use in other parts of my life.

Other things I use routine and structure for is journalling the end of the day, keeping track of my day to day diary and making sure I put key events in there, my weekly parkrun (of course!) but still making time for some self care.

As a therapist, one of the most common things I see is how much our nervous systems crave predictability. When life feels chaotic, uncertain, or overwhelming, having small anchors in the day can make a big difference.

Structure helps:
• Reduce anxiety by increasing a sense of control
• Support emotional regulation
• Improve sleep and energy
• Build trust with yourself
• Create space for healing and growth

Routine doesn’t have to mean scheduling every minute. It can be as simple as:
– Waking up around the same time
– A morning coffee ritual
– A 10-minute wind-down at night
– Setting aside time to move your body
– Planning your week every Sunday

These small, consistent actions send your brain a powerful message: I am safe. I am supported. I can handle this.

If you’re feeling overwhelmed lately, instead of trying to “fix everything,” start by adding one small, repeatable habit to your day.

Healing often begins with rhythm. 🤍

February is boost your self esteem month.I came across this quote by Criss JamiYou can receive all the compliments in th...
15/02/2026

February is boost your self esteem month.

I came across this quote by Criss Jami
You can receive all the compliments in the world, but that won't mean a thing unless you believe it.

Sometimes we all think we don't deserve kindness, or nice comments, but we do.
Sometimes we think there is an alternative motive for the nice words or compliments, but what if there isn't?

What if we accept the compliments for what they are.
What if we just say thank you.

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IanDeslowCounselling.co.uk

I offer face to face and walk & talk therapy locally, i offer online and phone counselling across the UK.

  Sometimes we make plans but they don't always go the way we planned.Your mental health journey is no different.There w...
14/02/2026

Sometimes we make plans but they don't always go the way we planned.

Your mental health journey is no different.

There will be challenges and set backs along the way, the important thing is to learn to adapt and accept that there will be deviations in your journey.

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IanDeslowCounselling.co.uk

I offer face to face and walk & talk counselling locally, I offer telephone and online counselling across the UK.

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Chatham
ME59HP

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