Ian Deslow Counselling

Ian Deslow Counselling I offer online, face to face, walk & talk and phone therapy - NCPS accredited, Member of the BACP

My approach is to offer you a safe environment to be able to discuss whatever you wish, free from judgement, and together we can work towards your goals.

Two things can be true at the same time.Please follow me on social media for more posts and updates.IanDeslowCounselling...
16/11/2025

Two things can be true at the same time.

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IanDeslowCounselling.co.uk

I offer face to face and walk & talk therapy locally, I offer phone and online counselling across the UK.

Happiness is not about getting all you want it's about enjoying all you have. The grass always looks greener elsewhere, ...
15/11/2025

Happiness is not about getting all you want it's about enjoying all you have. The grass always looks greener elsewhere, we assume someone has it easier as they don't often show the struggle happening in their life, we don't know what is happening in someone else life, so hug your loved ones and tell them they are appreciated.

IanDeslowCounselling.co.uk

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I offer face to face and walk & talk therapy locally, I offer phone and online counselling across the UK.

A recipe for self love.We are often tougher on ourselves than we are on friends and family, take a few of these suggesti...
14/11/2025

A recipe for self love.

We are often tougher on ourselves than we are on friends and family, take a few of these suggestions and be kinder to yourself.

IanDeslowCounselling.co.uk

Please follow me on social media for more posts and updates.

I offer face to face and walk & talk therapy locally, I offer online and phone counselling across the UK.

Today is world kindness day 2025The aim of today is to promote random acts of kindness, promoting and practising self-ki...
13/11/2025

Today is world kindness day 2025

The aim of today is to promote random acts of kindness, promoting and practising self-kindness and gratitude, and spreading kindness everywhere.

Could you do one or more kind thing for someone today, holding open a door for someone, letting someone out of a side turning, making someone a coffee, it doesn't have to a grand gesture, a lot of the time its the small thoughts and touches that mean more.

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IanDeslowCounselling.co.uk

I offer face to face and walk & talk therapy locally, I offer online and phone counselling across the UK.


It's very easy to be hard on yourself, to call yourself stupid when you make a mistake.Why not try a little positive sel...
12/11/2025

It's very easy to be hard on yourself, to call yourself stupid when you make a mistake.

Why not try a little positive self talk to boost your mental health and wellbeing.

👍I am trying my best
🫶It’s okay to make mistakes
🙂It’s okay to be frustrated
📘I am still learning how to do this
🫶How would I speak to someone else who made the same mistake

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IanDeslowCounselling.co.uk

I offer face to face and walk & talk counselling locally, I offer phone and onlie counselling across the UK.

How to stop negative thoughtsGive a few or all of these tips a try.Change your brain waves by spending  10 minutes a day...
11/11/2025

How to stop negative thoughts

Give a few or all of these tips a try.

Change your brain waves by spending 10 minutes a day doing breathing exercises
When negative thoughts appear, say stop!
Visualise the image of the thought and shrink it until it disappears.
Visualise positive situations instead
Change your daily patterns of negative thoughts to daily reflection, affirmation and meditation.

IanDeslowCounselling.co.uk

I offer face to face and walk & talk therapy locally, I offer online and phone counselling across the UK.

Please follow me on social media for more posts and updates.

I found this quote and I feel it represents the aim of this years, anti bullying week 2025."Strong people stand up for t...
10/11/2025

I found this quote and I feel it represents the aim of this years, anti bullying week 2025.

"Strong people stand up for themselves. But the strongest people stand up for others." - Unknown

This week is Anti-Bullying Week 2025 in the UK and it starts today with odd socks day.
This will take place from November 10th to 14th, 2025, with the theme
"Power for Good".
The week is coordinated by the Anti-Bullying Alliance and aims to raise awareness and encourage people to speak up against bullying by using their influence positively, both online and face-to-face.

More information can be found at
https://anti-bullyingalliance.org.uk/

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IanDeslowCounselling.co.uk

I offer face to face and walk & talk therapy locally, I offer online and phone counselling across the UK.

This calming breathing technique for stress, anxiety and panic takes just a few minutes and can be done anywhere.You wil...
08/11/2025

This calming breathing technique for stress, anxiety and panic takes just a few minutes and can be done anywhere.

You will get the most benefit if you do it regularly, as part of your daily routine.

You can do it standing up, sitting in a chair that supports your back, or lying on a bed or yoga mat on the floor.

Make yourself as comfortable as you can. If you can, loosen any clothes that restrict your breathing.

If you're lying down, place your arms a little bit away from your sides, with the palms up. Let your legs be straight, or bend your knees so your feet are flat on the floor.

If you're sitting, place your arms on the chair arms.

If you're sitting or standing, place both feet flat on the ground. Whatever position you're in, place your feet roughly hip-width apart.

❤Let your breath flow as deep down into your belly as is comfortable, without forcing it.
❤Try breathing in through your nose and out through your mouth.
❤Breathe in gently and regularly. Some people find it helpful to count steadily from 1 to 5. You may not be able to reach 5 at first.
❤Then, without pausing or holding your breath, let it flow out gently, counting from 1 to 5 again, if you find this helpful.
❤Keep doing this for 3 to 5 minutes.

IanDeslowCounselling.co.uk

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I offer face to face and walk & talk therapy locally, I offer online and phone counselling across the UK.

This quote serves as a reminder that life is full of surprises and unexpected turns.By being too focused on future plans...
07/11/2025

This quote serves as a reminder that life is full of surprises and unexpected turns.
By being too focused on future plans or past experiences, we may miss out on the opportunities, relationships and spontaneous moments that make up life.

This calls for mindfulness, an appreciation for living in the moment and an openness to the opportunities that present to us.

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IanDeslowCounselling.co.uk

I offer face to face and walk & talk therapy locally, I offer online and phone counselling across the UK.

Why the words we use matter?The words we choose to say or the way we choose to represent ourselves matter. Both our word...
06/11/2025

Why the words we use matter?

The words we choose to say or the way we choose to represent ourselves matter. Both our words and our nonverbal actions hold a lot of power, more than we probably even realize.

Another reason why our words are so important is because they can begin to shape how an individual actually views themselves and how others view you.

IanDeslowCounselling.co.uk

Please follow me on social media for more posts and updates.

I offer face to face and walk & talk therapy locally, I offer online and phone counselling across the UK.

Today is National Stress Awareness Day. This is an opportunity to think about the effects of stress, physically and ment...
05/11/2025

Today is National Stress Awareness Day.

This is an opportunity to think about the effects of stress, physically and mentally, as well as how we can manage feelings of stress.

Practice relaxation: Try breathing exercises, meditation, or mindfulness.
Listen to music: Engage in activities you find relaxing, like listening to a specific piece of music.
Do something you enjoy: Spend time on hobbies like gardening, playing an instrument, or creative projects.
Spend time in nature: Go for a walk in a park or simply spend time outdoors to help reduce stress.
Talk to friends or family, seek and ask for help.

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IanDeslowCounselling.co.uk

I offer face to face and walk & talk therapy locally, I offer online and phone counselling across the UK.

Latest book 📖 I’ve followed  journey since working together earlier this year, so I was absolutely thrilled to hear his ...
04/11/2025

Latest book 📖

I’ve followed journey since working together earlier this year, so I was absolutely thrilled to hear his book was published and is now available to buy (and download). He has given me permission to share we worked together.

Darren is a former officer in the police service and talks about his journey with PTSD.

His book is available on Amazon https://amzn.eu/d/7e4AFOS

Thank you Darren for sharing your experience, and congratulations on having your work published.

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