16/02/2026
When we’re stressed, our brain doesn’t “malfunction” — it shifts.
We move from:
• Thinking mode (planning, logic, flexibility)
to
• Emotion mode (connection, meaning, urgency)
and sometimes into
• Survival mode (fight, flight, freeze).
Understanding this shift is powerful.
It reduces shame.
It increases self-compassion.
And it gives us tools to come back into regulation.
Emotional regulation is not about being calm all the time.
It’s about noticing what state you’re in and taking one small, supportive step.
You don’t have to feel calm to choose a helpful next action.
If you’re healing from trauma, narcissistic abuse, or chronic stress, this framework can change how you see yourself.
Learn more about trauma recovery, nervous system healing, and emotional regulation at
www.recoverytrauma.com
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