13/03/2026
Choosing a therapist can feel like a big decision, especially if itâs your first time considering counselling. Here are a few things that can be helpful to look out for:
⢠You feel safe, respected and not judged
⢠They work at your pace and donât pressure you
⢠They listen carefully and take your experiences seriously
⢠They are professionally trained, hold the appropriate qualifications and work ethically
⢠They encourage openness and honest conversation
⢠You feel comfortable being yourself with them
Therapy can sometimes be challenging and emotional, itâs natural for difficult feelings to come up when youâre exploring important parts of your life. However, you shouldnât consistently dread going to sessions or leave feeling significantly worse each time. Even when the work is hard, a good therapeutic space should still feel supportive, safe and containing.
Finding the right therapist can take time and itâs completely okay to explore different options until someone feels like the right fit for you.