Oaklands Funeral Service, Chichester

06/12/2025

Well done to Morgan and her Ladies Doubles Tennis Team for finishing their Club league year with a bang! 🎾💥 Morgan won both of her matches, securing an overall draw win for Chichester Racquets & Fitness Club. Very well deserved! 😃👏🏻🎉❤️

22/11/2025

On Thursday night we went Christmas Bauble painting to get into Christmas Spirit! 🎄

Tell us which one is your favourite! We love them all!❤️

11/11/2025

At 11 o’clock this morning, our team at Oaklands paused together standing outside for the two-minute silence, a moment to honour and remember all who served, and those who continue to serve today.

𝐋𝐞𝐬𝐭 𝐰𝐞 𝐟𝐨𝐫𝐠𝐞𝐭. ❤

09/11/2025

❤️ We shall remember them. Lest we forget ❤️

21/10/2025

Yes it’s that time of year again. Poppy season is upon us when we remember of the people and animals that were lost in conflict. We will remember them.

Come and buy your poppies from Oaklands!

Remembrance Sunday is held in the United Kingdom as a day to commemorate the contribution of British and Commonwealth military and civilian servicemen and women. This year it is Sunday 9th November!🫡

26/09/2025

As a lover of horses I follow the Wild horses in the USA. They are always in danger of being rounded up and removed. However I wanted to share this post on how these amazing animals respect a band members death. Such honour.

You may have noticed that many of our recent posts have focused on family and emotion. Today, we continue with that theme.

Death is not an easy subject to face—neither in our own lives with those we love, nor in the lives of the animals around us. But if we pay attention, we see that all animals exhibit emotions around death.

Our volunteers have been honored to witness wild horse behavior that most people will never observe—and that some may even choose not to see. The death of a bandmate, and the funeral that follows, brings together nearby bands to pay their respects to the grieving group.

When a family member dies—whether from illness, injury, or colic—the lead stallion lets out a long, shrill whinny while his band hovers near their fallen companion. In the distance, faint vocal responses can be heard. Within the hour, the sound of hooves begins to approach. One by one, other bands arrive nearby.

The ritual begins. The visiting stallion greets the mourning stallion with a sniff and a snort. After this introduction, the visiting band approaches, stops, sniffs, and sometimes touches the deceased horse before moving on in single file. This scene is repeated with each band’s arrival. When the final band has paid their respects, the family is left alone to maintain their vigil. This watch continues until the lead stallion decides it is time to move on.

The photo below, from 2019, shows a mother saying her final goodbye to her youngster—struck by a vehicle—after an almost 24-hour vigil. (Top
right)
Another photo from 2017 captures bandmates grieving over Clydette, who passed away due to birthing complications and a band showing respect.(Middle and bottom right)
Another photo shows Uncle Sam's bandmates saying farewell. (Top left)
Our next photograph from 2024, shows Bella watching over Cholla.(Bottom left)

So yes, we are “those crazy horse people.” And yes, we not only believe that horses are highly intelligent and capable of feeling deep emotion—we bear witness to it. Every day, we are privileged to observe these beautiful animals during some of the most intimate moments of their lives.

It truly is—As the River Flows.

07/09/2025

Congratulations to Louise and her rowing team with Chichester Yacht Club for completing Monster of the Loch Rowing Race in Scotland in 3 hours and 44 minutes!!😃👏🏻🎉

1) They were the fastest entry from Three Harbours Clubs.
2) Beat most gigs
3) Beaten by handful of Welsh Celtics and sculls.

An amazing experience in a wonderful natural environment but they didn’t see a sign of Nessie lurking beneath the dark and peaty waters!💪🏻🚣🏴󠁧󠁢󠁳󠁣󠁴󠁿

06/09/2025

Good Luck to Louise and her rowing team Chichester Yacht Club rowing 34km for Monster of the Loch in Scotland today!

We are all rooting for you and hope you smash it!😃🚣🤞🏻❤️

03/07/2025

Meet Steven, our baby seagull and local celebrity! 🐦 He visits us every day and always brightens our day! If you spot him outside the shop, Butchers and Barbers don’t forget to say hi! 👋🏻😊

25/06/2025

When robins appear, it’s a gentle sign from heaven, a whisper from those we’ve lost, letting us know they’re near, watching over us with love! ✨

14/06/2025

A lovely quote about Grief!

Each one of us represents a part of our loved ones who are no longer with us. For example :

1) Becky is a kind, caring and loving person just like her Dad, Barry!❤️
2) Louise has a passion for Gig Rowing just like her Mum, Vera who loved Sailing!🚣‍♀️⛵️❤️
3) Morgan has a passion for Tennis just like her Grandma, Vera who taught her how to play Tennis!🎾❤️

What’s yours?

11/06/2025

Just had a surprise treat from our lovely neighbours at The Barbers on the Green – they brought us a sample of their waffles with ice cream and chocolate sauce… and WOW! 😍

Warm, gooey, chocolatey perfection – we’re officially obsessed. If you’re in the area, you need to try one. Thank you so much to Danny next door – what a sweet way to brighten the day! 🍫🍦 🧇 Barbers on the green