01/04/2026
It's moments like these when I feel that my role as a mother has definitely shifted...and that it's the men in my sons' lives that become the guides and role models instead of me.
It's been happening gradually over the past couple of years. I began to notice that the needs of my sons are very different compared to their younger years. It almost feels like I've given them all I could and my job is nearly done.
Instead of motherly care and nurture, working on creating genuine attachment, in addition to creating a safe space of unconditional love and learning to be with all of my boys' emotions as their nervous system develops, it feels the time has come to help them grow into (young) men. I observe and sense that their needs now include things like challenges, stretching their comfort zone, a bit of discomfort, doing things that will require them to be more independent.
It is a joy to see the men they're growing into and I am grateful they have great male role models to learn from. 🙏
I love to support parents on their journey through parenthood, especially those with neurodivergent children. Parenthood offers a fantastic opportunity to heal, grow and become the person you want to be.
If you're currently struggling, feel a bit lost and disconnected as a parent, do reach out and let's have a conversation. I'll share my Calendly link in the comments. 🙂