Dylan's Duchenne Journey

Dylan's Duchenne Journey Follow Dylan on his Duchenne Muscular Dystrophy journey and to raise awareness. Defy the odds 💙⚔️

The scary truth of it all.Credit to Defy Duchenne With Joshua, give them a follow, absolutely beautiful and terrifying j...
22/12/2025

The scary truth of it all.

Credit to Defy Duchenne With Joshua, give them a follow, absolutely beautiful and terrifying journey to see ❤️

Some people think being a Duchenne mum is all appointments and wheelchairs.

They don’t see the silent countdown that lives in your chest.
The way joy and fear sit side by side.
The way love feels heavier because time feels smaller

This life teaches you how to love fiercely…
and how to grieve while someone is still here.

If you know, you know.

22/12/2025

Just an update, I don't want to make it long because this mum is really struggling this season.

Dylan has mild secondary osteoporosis. This is the beginnings of progression. The time I never wanted is coming quite fast and I am struggling daily in my head with this.

He has to start biphosphonate infusions February 13th. This requires emergency steroid drugs as it's likely to make him quite poorly. I really am dreading this. Unfortunately only one adult can go with him due to space on the ward, my support network won't be able to be there.

He will have one in February at a low dose, another one in May at same dose, another in August and then every 6 months until he stops growing, usually around 17 years old.

Dylans bloods showed that there are no biochemical signs of puberty. This one has upset me. All I ever wanted is to watch my child grow and that might just have been stripped from us.

That's the thing with DMD, it strips your child and you of your dreams for a future. He still has a bright future, but I don't feel like I do. Selfish, but it's mum worry that never goes away.

Merry christmas everyone, please remember who you have around you, love them fiercely ❤️

26/11/2025

It's been a very tough day; we went to Sheffield Children's all day. 9:30am to 4:30pm for the multidisciplinary appointments. Here's the updates.

We had Obs (BMI, ECG, BP, pulse), then cardiology. Then DEXA scan, then metabolics/endocrinology, then neurology, then respiratory physiology, then respiratory, then a blood test.

Obs - 39kg (6st 1lb)... he's put on just short of a stone in 4 months, almost 2 stone in 11 months. He's slightly taller but measuring shorter than he should. Blood pressure sitting nicely, pulse on the higher normal side but not worried. ECG as normal as it can be.

Cardiology - ECG confirmed okay. Echo as normal as can be. No action required, but after his 13th birthday next November his lisinopril will increase and a beta blocker will be added onto his medication regime.

DEXA scan - uneventful, he enjoys laying there for half an hour in a warm room!

Metabolics/endocrinology - here we go... they've spotted some spinal damage in the upper thoracic region. They are now preparing to give bisphosphonate infusions as his bone density has reduced some more. This is due to his daily steroids use, known for reducing bone density, these infusions allow calcium to support vitamin D in better and more efficient bone growth production and density. The metabolics consultant will know more when the radiologist reports back. If he gives the go ahead he will have an infusions every 3 months and then every 6 months. He will be required to go on his emergency medications after the first 2 sessions at least as it can make the boys quite poorly. We will know more about the grading of his spondylolthesis with this report, too.

Neurology - his physio assessments readings were faster than the last appointment in June, which sounds great but his abilities vary day to day, today was a good day for his mobility despite his ongoing mammoth battle with it. They are hoping that Grimsby wheelchair services will offer the opportunity of a mobility scooter, I queried self-propelled wheelchairs but unfortunately his arm strength is not there to allow for this. They mentioned that we can increase steroid dosage but currently optional, I declined but will agree to an increase in 6 months when they see him again. I have also declined an upcoming, to be confirmed and approved by NICE, a new drug coming. They are ultimately happy with him but expressed the need for me to have the hard conversation with him, phone appointment for that booked for Friday.

Respiratory physiology and respiratory medicine - needs another urgent sleep study before Christmas due to some strange symptoms. His lung function tests were a breeze but they did stress that they aren't 100% accurate and we are to stay proactive in spotting anything new. They're happy with him but have given me a number to call if I see anything more, that one feels quite unsettling as though they are expecting something to happen soon but we keep moving.

Bloods - all hormones are being done as I've noticed small parts of puberty beginning, but due to his stunted growth height-wise they need to check it out. They also added bloods to check that he is suitable for bisphosphonate infusions.

It has been an incredibly hard day but I'm extremely proud of his resistance and bravery today. Neither of us could do it without the loving support of my Jack ❤️

This was Dylan's case ❤️
23/11/2025

This was Dylan's case ❤️

"I have received everything and I cannot express my gratitude in helping me to get what my son needs. I'm really happy to say that we have now ordered a car for my son through Motability, this will completely change our lives!"

My casework team and I work hard year-round to support local residents across Great Grimsby and Cleethorpes.

If you are in need of any assistance, you can contact my office at melanie.onn.mp@parliament.uk

03/11/2025
A fresh cut always feels good ❤️
15/09/2025

A fresh cut always feels good ❤️

19/08/2025

Just an update regarding Dylan.

Dylan was obviously in his wheelchair a lot more in Japan, and when he did walk it wasn't for long. I have decided that it's time to take action at home. While he builds a big "catio" outside for my beautiful girlies, I will be renovating inside. Unfortunately we've had to make the decision to bring Dylan's bedroom downstairs as it's becoming dangerous and with only downstairs bathroom/toilet it's safer. Recarpeting the whole house. My living room will be Dylan's bedroom, my dining room will be my living room, Dylan's old/upstairs bedroom will be my bedroom and my old bedroom will be a storage room. I've never had storage here, very limited space and no outdoor shed so that room will come in handy.

We are still on the council house list and still not any sort of decent priority despite how many medical letters they have received. We are still being offered 2 bed flats that are not accessible, some ground floor, some top floor. I wish they'd understand that British people are entitled to family homes. Flats aren't a bother but I'm 33 years old and would like my forever home with a garden, driveway and garage in a nicer area for Dylan.

Many will offer help, of which I'm humbled and grateful, but there's a plan in place with my boyfriend, dad and close friends to make this renovation smoother, too many cooks spoil the broth so we'll be sticking to military regime with this because it has to be perfect ❤️

I'm a little out of sorts with this so bear with me, I'll be back to posting soon, I'm still grieving also and requiring a lot of space ❤️

Tokyo ❤️My boy has had the best dream holiday you could imagine. Here's a compilation! He was in his wheelchair at least...
19/08/2025

Tokyo ❤️

My boy has had the best dream holiday you could imagine. Here's a compilation! He was in his wheelchair at least 98% of the time but I'll show you the rare times he stood and walked.

Thank you Yardbirds Rock, Deadly Bakes, Sallyann Newborn, Sarah, Burton, all donaters of the gofundme and cash donation for making this happen through raising money for him, I could never afford Tokyo without this. The biggest thank you to the best man I've ever met Jack, for everything ❤️ if I have forgotten anyone, huge apologies but big big thanks it's been a big year for us!!

We arrived back last Thursday and only just finding our feet again. 12 hours there, 15 hours back alongside a little bit of jetlag ❤️

Day 2 - Teamlabs borderless was absolutely unbelievable. I've never seen Dylan so excited, and he walked most of the way...
08/08/2025

Day 2 -

Teamlabs borderless was absolutely unbelievable. I've never seen Dylan so excited, and he walked most of the way round!! Tokyo tower was pretty cool until vertigo washed over everyone 😂😂😂

Beautiful start to our holiday ❤️

Flight & day 1 in TokyoThat flight was really really hard and I'm hoping to be more prepared for the way back! It topped...
07/08/2025

Flight & day 1 in Tokyo

That flight was really really hard and I'm hoping to be more prepared for the way back!

It topped at 35 degrees and 58% humidity today so needless to say we've struggled 😂😂🥵

We're leaving on a jet plane, dont know when I'll be back again 🛩
05/08/2025

We're leaving on a jet plane, dont know when I'll be back again 🛩

25/07/2025

I've never felt so sad. We're all so proud of you dude, your grandma will be beaming watching you on your last day ❤️

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