20/01/2026
🫂Comfort...🫂
Where do you look for it? 👀 And what actually does the trick? ✅️
I'm usually a comfort eater.
My first response (for decades!) has been;
😭Upset...eat
🤯Stressed...eat
🙄Bored...eat
😡Angry...eat
🥶Cold...eat
Please tell me I'm not the only one? I'd love to hear ideas for healthier things that can provide comfort without the calories 💪🥰
Oddly, the thing I reached for first would provide an immediate hit if comfort, that familiarity, The deliciousness... food doesn't judge either right? But that feeling of comfort quickly fizzles out & then the issue's still there. It's hard to recognise unhealthy patterns like this, EVEN harder to speak up about, and to do something to change that behavior.
This year I'm trying to reprogramme my reactions to emotions and today I truly felt all my hard work pay off.
Today I've felt overwhelmed, and I'd usually procrastinate by eating/drinking...then my dogs had a fight & I was stressed out, and then I got really cold so I started hurting more because of my Fibromyalgia...argh! 🫠
But today, my first thought was "I need a bath"... so when Leigh got home I asked if he could take over doing tea so I could have the time I needed. Of course he obliged ❤️ I'm so proud of myself!
Thank you 🍒
I need warmth when I'm cold, not food. I need to relax when I'm stressed, not eat. 🤔
If you want to learn how to change your mindset, that's what we do in my groups, so come along & join us;
🏡 Wellspring Methodist Church, Canal Road, CW12 3AP
🕠 Thursday 5.30pm
🕤 Friday 9.30am