26/11/2025
Let’s face it - parenting is hard.
Between the “No,” the “Not right now,” and the never-ending to-do list, it’s easy to feel like we’re constantly racing against the clock.
But connection doesn’t need hours. A few intentional minutes can have a huge impact.
This week, try these small-but-mighty ways to reconnect 👇
1. “10 things I love about you.”
Kids light up when they hear what makes them special. It boosts self-esteem, strengthens your bond, and anchors them in who they are, not just what they do.
2. Create space for an activity together.
Whether it’s drawing, baking, or building something, shared activities tell your child: You matter enough for me to slow down. Quality time = emotional fuel.
3. Be curious, “How can I help you this week?”
Curiosity is connection. This question gives them permission to express needs they didn’t know how to ask for and shows that you’re on their team and willing to help.
4. Practice gratitude - “Spending time with you is important to me because…”
Children rarely hear why they’re cherished. Naming it helps them feel valued, secure and deeply loved.
5. Draw your favourite things from the week.
Reflection helps kids process emotions, celebrate achievements and feel heard and understood. When you create something together like this, it encourages the conversation to flow after, add your own best bits in too to create something shared. This really makes space for empathy too.
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I did this with my children this week and it was such a lovely way of connecting, we did 10 things I love about you in the car and the things my kids loved about me most were me making tea and giving cuddles and biscuits 😂 nevertheless it made for an entertaining car journey! 🙈😂
Let me know what your kids love best about you too! Hopefully I’m not the only one appreciated mainly for my snacks 😂