29/12/2025
This week messes with people’s heads more than almost any other time of year, not because their body has suddenly changed, but because they don’t understand what the scale is actually showing them.
Most people have been taught to react to weight rather than understand it. Up means panic. Down means relief. Every fluctuation becomes a judgement about effort, discipline, or whether they’ve “messed it up”.
One of the very first steps to stopping dieting for life is learning how your body actually works. How fat gain really happens. How fat loss really happens. And what weight changes do and don’t mean in the real world. That’s why this is one of the first things I teach when people come to work with me.
Once you understand this properly, the scale loses its power. You stop getting upset by normal fluctuations. You stop reacting emotionally. You stop sabotaging your own progress because you think something has gone wrong.
If you’re already realising that the problem isn’t food or willpower, but the way you’ve been taught to think about weight, comment ERA and I’ll share more about how this approach works.
Instead of spiralling, you stay steady. Instead of fixing and compensating, you carry on. Instead of starting again every few weeks, you build something that actually holds up.
That shift is what ends years of stop start dieting. Not more rules. Not more control. More understanding.
If you want 2026 to be the year you leave the dieting era behind for good, comment ERA and I’ll point you in