24/12/2025
For a large number of us, Christmas can be a challenging time of the year. People who live alone can experience loneliness over the festive period, while others may feel obliged to socialise with challenging family members. Others find Christmas to be a strain on their finances; may find the loss of routine to be difficult; and may experience a considerable ‘mental load’ as a result of all the preparations and having to meet people’s expectations.
Last week at ARCH we ran a ‘Coping with Christmas’ workshop which looked at some of the common challenges that Christmas may bring, and discussed some of the strategies we might adopt to make Christmas easier. Keeping busy (either through going for walks or engaging with hobbies and interests) was seen as being useful by several attendees. Others emphasised the importance of self-care and self-compassion, believing that ‘me time’ was necessary to recharge mental batteries.
Below is a list of useful contacts if you are finding things difficult:
- Text the word CALMER to 85258 to start a free, anonymous and confidential text conversation with mental health professionals at Shout.
- Visit https://www.tewv.nhs.uk/about/campaigns-and-programmes/youmatter/ for various ways to get support for your mental health.
- If you want to talk to someone about how you feel, try one of these free helplines: Samaritans: phone 116 123 or email jo@samaritans.org. Open 24 hours a day, every day. SANEline: 0300 304 7000. Open 4pm – 10pm, every day. Careline: 0845 122 8622. Open 10am-1pm and 7pm-10pm, Monday – Friday. MIND: 0845 766 0163. Open 9am-5pm, Monday – Friday.
- If you need urgent help with your mental health call NHS 111 and press option 2 for urgent mental health support (free and available 24/7). You will speak to a mental health professional who will help you find the right support.
Co-created with people with lived experience of mental health challenges, You Matter offers tools and resources to help you get the mental health support you deserve.