17/04/2026
62 million men.
Let that number hit you.
62 million reportedly visiting an online âR academyâ a hidden space where men teach each other how to drug, control, and sexually abuse their wives and partners without getting caught.
This is not rare.
This is not isolated.
This is organised abuse spreading faster than the systems meant to protect us.
It sickens me to my core.
I keep thinking of my conversation with an abuelo from an indigenous tribe. In his culture, they worship the feminine â the mothers, the womb, the sacred source that brings life into this world.
They honour women as strong, multifaceted beings who hold so much power and responsibility. The men stand fully in their divine masculine - protector, not predator - so women can embody their divine feminine without fear.
They live in real harmony. They love their wives. Harm has no place there.
How did we stray so far?
Two beings meant to create life together, grow together, build families together⌠and yet somehow more and more we are seeing men choose violation and control. Crimes against women have gone up significantly.
Is it because women are finally rising after centuries of persecution? Because our power feels threatening?
The abuelo said it plainly: If women held more power, the world wouldnât be in this state â fewer wars, more balance.
We must return to that sacred harmony. Take lesson from these communities, how beautiful it could be?
This starts at home. Raise sons with honest talks about consent, respect, and the real pain trauma causes. Model love, not control.
To good men: Be louder. Call it out. Refuse silence.
To dads of daughters: Speak up and protect them.
We must rise together - men and women as equals.
Justice must come. Real accountability. Not just slaps on the wrist.
This is not acceptable.
This is not âhow the world is.â I mean I know it is, and had happened for centuries but why is getting worse?
This is a perversion of the natural order we were born for.
We were meant to rise together - in balance, in reverence, in love.
Thoughts?
