27/10/2025
What Baby Loss Taught Me…
Loss changed the way I see the world. It showed me how fragile life is, how quickly everything can shift, and how important it is to keep growing no matter what.
One of the greatest lessons it gave me is that time is more meaningful than anything money can buy. Time to heal. Time to connect. Time to love. When someone gives you their time, they’re giving you a part of their life they’ll never get back.
I’ve also learned to understand that pain isn’t always loud. Some of the deepest struggles are silent, hidden behind smiles, distance, or endless giving. So please check on the quiet ones, the ones who always show up for others, the ones who are distancing themselves.
One thing I struggled with was that life carries on, even when yours feels like it has stopped. It’s a harsh truth, but it’s also a gentle promise: if life keeps moving, we will too.
Important Reminder: Energy must be mutual. Titles, roles, or expectations don’t equal entitlement. You are allowed to choose peace over chaos.
And lastly, trauma is not a free pass. It explains our hurt, but it doesn’t justify hurting others. Healing is our responsibility, even when it feels impossible.
❤️ To anyone in the midst of grief I’m sending you love.
❤️ To those working through trauma I salute your strength.
❤️ To those struggling in silence please, message me. You don’t have to do this alone.
❤️🙏🏻
