15/02/2026
Somewhere between nappies, night feeds, and breastfeeding on repeat, you changed - and thatâs not a bad thing.
You might miss your work friends, those long chilled mornings or the wild Friday parties, or...
You might find yourself craving five minutes aloneâŚ
but also not wanting to leave your baby for a second.
Both can be true.
You can love breastfeeding.
You can feel touched out by breastfeeding.
You can be proud of how youâre feeding your baby and still miss the version of you who could leave the house without planning a military operation around feeds.
Identity shifts in motherhood are real, but we donât talk about them. We assume that, just like our bodies, our minds are ready: but thatâs not true. We all need time to figure out who weâve become.
What was the hardest change for you?