01/10/2025
Couldn’t resist the ‘hugging your younger self’ trend 🥹✨
So today, I want to hug my 5-year-old self.
I want to kneel down, look her in the eyes, and tell her: I see you!
I see the little girl who was so quiet, so well-behaved, so careful —
hoping that being “good” would make her feel seen.
I want to validate every feeling she held in — the big ones that felt too much for her little body, and the small ones she thought weren’t important enough to matter.
I want to whisper to her that the beliefs she started carrying — that she was too sensitive, too ‘weak’ or not enough to be noticed —
weren’t true.
Even if the world around her was too distracted, too busy, too loud —
she still mattered.
I wish she never felt the need to dismiss her own needs just to feel safe and loved.
I wish she didn’t think being quiet was the only way to be loved and to be safe.
I will be here for her now — every day.
To remind her how loved she is.
How her smile warms up a room.
How her little jokes are still magic.
I’ll tell her how proud I am of her heart, her unique way of seeing the world, her courage.
I’ll help her carry the fears and her frustrations — and gently teach her it’s safe to let it out.
And I’ll remind her: just because others hurt too, it doesn’t mean her pain matters any less.
I’ll be the one who cheers her on to following her dreams, who sees worth in her interests, and who will always believe in her.
I’ll sit beside her and listen, really listen.
I’ll be the voice she needed, the comfort she never asked for.
I love you, little one.
You never had to do it all alone.
And now, you never will again. 🤍