27/01/2026
If you’ve been told any of these comments, please remember they’re not truths about you. They’re reflections of a society that doesn’t understand or value sensitivity.
Here’s what I wish someone had told you instead:
Your sensitivity isn’t a flaw to fix. It’s how you’re wired and it comes with incredible depth, insight and capacity for empathy and connection.
Your physical symptoms are real. Mind-body connection doesn’t mean “it’s all in your head”, it means your body is communicating what your mind has been pushing down.
You don’t need to toughen up. You need proper support, boundaries and nervous system regulation to design your life around your actual capacity.
You’re not failing at self-care. You’re dealing with nervous system dysregulation and possibly trauma. These are things that require proper therapeutic support, not just yoga and green smoothies.
I’ve spent 15 years working with highly sensitive people who’ve been told these same damaging things. Who’ve internalised the message that something is wrong with them.
The truth is there’s nothing wrong with you. You just need support from someone who actually understands.
If you’re tired of being dismissed and misunderstood and you’re ready to work with a therapist who gets the HSP experience, I have limited spaces opening up. Book a free 15-minute intro call to see if we’re a good fit. Link in bio.
You deserve to be seen, understood and supported exactly as you are.