01/12/2025
The antidote to HSP burnout isn’t self care - it’s restructuring your life around your needs and capacity.
If you’re a highly sensitive person struggling with chronic stress and burnout, you’ve probably tried everything, “magical” morning routines, meditation apps, bubble baths… but you’re still exhausted.
I’m sure you’ve been told that self care and looking after yourself is the answer. And it might help a little. Temporarily. But why isn’t it sticking?
The problem is that using the odd bubble bath to recover from a life that’s burning you out is like bailing out water from a boat with a colossal whole in it.
The truth is that no amount of bubble baths will be enough if you’re trying to live a life that doesn’t suit your sensitive nervous system.
If you are regularly in situations that overstimulate you and force you to keep up with workloads and social expectations that don’t allow you the recovery and depth of processing you require to thrive, your nervous system will be spending more time dysregulated than regulated.
So, the real solution isn’t adding more things to your to do list, but to fundamentally restructure your life to actually work for you by setting boundaries, changing your expectations of yourself and making space for what you need.
This is not as easy as it sounds. It requires a lot of honesty and self compassion. Many people find they need to change their perception of and relationship with themselves. This can feel a bit daunting, but ultimately very rewarding.
This is the deeper work which requires healing past wounds and limiting beliefs that may have been keeping you stuck in habits and expectations that are hurting you and building the nervous system capacity and trust in yourself to dare to honour your own needs.
This is the work I do as a HSP therapist, helping you release the patterns that are keeping you stuck and helping you reconnect with a deeper truth. One where you aren’t broken or weak, but precious enough to take care of and protect. If you’re ready to do the deeper work, follow the link on my bio to book a free introductory call.