31/12/2025
This moment can feel heavier than people realise, because it is not just another date on the calendar, it is a quiet reminder of everything you thought would already be different by now.
The routines you imagined, the milestones you pictured, the version of yourself you expected to be living this life with a child in your arms instead of questions in your head.
If you are feeling pressure to feel hopeful, motivated, or grateful right now, please know that nothing has gone wrong if all you feel is tired.
Tired of tracking, tired of waiting, tired of trying to hold it together while the world moves on as if this isn’t consuming so much of you.
What I see again and again in my work is that this season is not a sign you are failing or falling behind. It is often a sign that your body and nervous system have been carrying more than anyone ever taught you how to support.
Fertility is not just about doing more, fixing faster, or staying positive enough. It is about feeling safe, nourished, and supported through a process that asks so much of you.
You are allowed to move into this new year gently, grand promises or forced optimism, and you are allowed to want support that actually takes some of the mental load off your shoulders instead of adding to it.
If you are reading this and thinking you cannot do another year of guessing, Googling, or trying to piece things together on your own, this might be the moment to let someone help you carry it.
Whether that looks like personalised support, deeper testing, or having a clear plan created for you instead of doing all the thinking yourself, you do not have to do this alone.
And if all you need today is to know that your feelings make sense and that you are not broken for still wanting this so badly, I hope you let that land too.