15/03/2026
Can mums really have it all?
Happy Mother's Day to every mum figuring it out.
Days like today make me reflect and this year I keep coming back to the same question.
I used to think it was a choice. Career or kids? Ambition or presence?
I once asked a woman I deeply admired - a board-level leader, what her biggest regret was. Without hesitating, she said: not having enough time with her kids.
That stayed with me.
I'm not here to say there's a right or wrong and I'm definitely not here to say I've got it figured out. Six years into running my own business and I'm still tweaking, still learning, still getting it wrong some days.
But what I have learned is that you don't have to choose. It's just not the clean, polished version of "having it all."
It's stolen hours. Early mornings and long evenings after bedtime. It's finding pockets of time for yourself, even if that looks like launching a slam ball at the floor to clear your head.
Because here's what I keep coming back to: the time where she truly needs me? It's just a phase. And it's one I'm not willing to compromise on.
So I protect that. And I build everything else around it.
To every mum doing the same, you're not alone!