Undefinable Living

Undefinable Living “YOU ARENT DEFINED BY WHO YOU THINK YOU ARE, YOUR DEFINED BY WHO YOU WANT TO BE”

15/02/2026

For most of my life, I stayed moving. 💯
(But almost everything I did or achieved never felt enough)

Training harder. Working harder. Staying busy. Proving how strong I was through constant action. Because slowing down meant feeling and feeling deeply was something I didn’t always know how to hold. (But all the avoidance within came through as chaos in external reality )🤪

I was trying to prove my strength in always doing, always pushing, always going or doing something.

Movement has always been my medicine. Training, lifting, wrestling 🤼‍♀️ they’ve always helped me move emotion through my body and regulate my nervous system in ways I didn’t even understand at the time.

But I’ve realised something on this healing journey, the way I used movement was sometimes another way of running/escaping 🏋🏼‍♀️🤸🏼‍♀️🤼 🏃🏼‍♀️

Somatic healing and breathwork have changed that for me. They’ve taught me how to slow down, how to sit with what’s there, how to let emotion move through me instead of controlling me.❤️‍🔥

Because feeling deeply isn’t weakness. It’s connection. It’s aliveness. It’s power. But when you feel deeply, you also have to learn how to feel safe in your own body. 🙏🏼

And that’s the real work.

The real strength isn’t always in pushing harder. Sometimes it’s in being still enough to hear yourself. To sit with yourself. To come home to yourself.

So many of us stay busy because being alone with our thoughts feels uncomfortable. Because survival mode feels familiar.🏊‍♀️

But healing your nervous system changes that. Once your body learns safety, it doesn’t want to live in fight or flight anymore.🌀 🧘🏼‍♀️

You aren’t defined by what happened to you.
You’re defined by who you choose to be.❤️‍🔥

And sometimes healing isn’t becoming someone new it’s allowing yourself to be who you were always meant to be. ☯️🩵

13/02/2026

Love isn’t just romantic … ♥️

it lives in friendships, chosen family, healing, pets, and the quiet connection you build with yourself. This Valentine’s Day, remember: you are not alone. The love you’re searching for might already be holding you in ways you didn’t expect. 🙏🏼🥰❤️‍🩹

12/02/2026

Everyone has advice.
Timelines.
Limits …..

At one point, when I felt strong enough to leg press, sledge push, and climb the StairMaster, I was told I should still be on crutches because of how bad my knee injury was. One month post ACL complete tear, along with partial tears of other major ligaments and a meniscus tear.

Advice matters…but”recovery isn’t one-size-fits-all. No one else lives in your body.🌀🫶🏼

So I kept going, trusted my own progress and today I ran my fastest 5K since the injury, in the lead up to my . Which I still know is the right decision, as hard as it’s been to accept and make. 🏃🏼‍♀️ ❤️‍🔥

I’ve smashed my pre-rehab! And I know that I will put everything into the post surgery rehab aswell. 🙏🏼❤️‍🩹

Sometimes the biggest breakthrough comes when you stop letting other people’s limits become your own.

12/02/2026

Before I learned about nervous system regulation, my body was already teaching me. 🙏🏼

I’d find myself twisting side to side, swaying, shifting just listening to what my body needed to release.🌀🤪

Life on the road, performing, constantly living in adrenaline spikes, and being neurodivergent means my nervous system rarely gets to fully switch off. Regulation isn’t a luxury it’s survival.🫶🏼🙏🏼🌀

Now I understand: those movements were my body trying to come back to safety.

Learning how to calm and regulate my nervous system has become one of the biggest parts of my life not just as a performer, but as a human❤️‍🩹❤️‍🔥.

Sometimes healing isn’t about doing more.
It’s about listening when your body asks you to slow down.☯️🤍 -

12/02/2026

Someone else’s chaos doesn’t have to become your reality.

Ever notice how quickly you can slip into someone else’s nervous system? One person in a rush, riding your bumper, and suddenly you’re tense, reactive, and ready to prove a point.

Real healing (integrated) shows up in those moments. When you stop reacting and start responding. When you stay grounded instead of getting pulled into someone else’s fight-or-flight. 🤛🏼 ✈️

Peace isn’t just built in quiet moments ,it’s proven in real life, in real time. 🌀

Sometimes the most powerful move is simply indicating, letting them pass, and staying in your own lane.🙌🏼😌

11/02/2026

Healing isn’t pretty or quick. It’s years of unlearning survival mode, calming a nervous system that’s been on edge, facing the same triggers and choosing a different response. 🌀

It’s realizing you were never running from other people you were running from yourself. And slowly, you stop. You rest. You rebuild. You choose yourself in ways you never knew how before.🥹🙏🏼❤️‍🩹

You break the patterns, the self-abandonment, the waiting to be saved. And one day it hits you…

The person you needed to protect & heal your inner child ,you became her.👭

Healing isn’t instant. But when integration finally clicks, you realize the version of you that fought to come through… was you all along.

“You aren’t defined by who you think you are, you’re defined by who you want to be.”
~ Sadie Gibbs / The Undefinable ❤️‍🔥

A slogan that came to me at the start of my own healing journey finally makes complete sense in my brand, my purpose, and how I mentor and coach others. 🙌🏼

Healing is about transmuting through every version of yourself that isn’t truly you. The identities built from fear, survival, generational cycles, coping mechanisms, and self-sabotage the versions that felt safe but were actually keeping you caged.

Because beneath all of that is the real you. The one fighting to come through.

The one you actually “WANT TO BE” ❤️‍🔥

09/02/2026

One thing I really discovered these past few years and that has taught me something real:
accept people as they are then place them where they belong in your life. 🙏🏼

Not everyone within or who enters your life deserves full access to you. Some people come to build with you… others come to take from you, drain you, or use your love and loyalty as leverage. And learning the difference is part of growth.❤️‍🩹🦋

I’ve realized the way people treat others usually mirrors how they treat themselves. A lot of people don’t even have a real relationship with who they are, so they live in projection, judgment, and insecurity. You can’t expect someone to honor you if they don’t even honor themselves. 🐛👀

Potential is something we, as good-hearted people, often fall in love with. But potential means nothing unless someone chooses to meet it within themselves. Without that, they can never become the love they’re capable of being. They haven’t created the capacity for it within. ❤️‍🩹🦋

Be aware of the drainers, Protect your energy & Love people but place them accordingly.” ❤️‍🔥

06/02/2026

You’re not something to be perfected you’re something to be experienced.
Like art, people will see you through the lens of their own world, but your job isn’t to polish yourself into acceptance; it’s to feel, know, and embrace who you truly are. 🖼️ ❤️‍🔥🙏🏼

Over the last 18 months to 2 years I tried to perfect the outside because the inside felt too heavy to face my engagement ended, I left what had become my home (not just the house but the person) and moved twice, lived out of storage, stepped back into a wrestling world that terrified me, and lost my dog Luna while trying to build a life that scared me but mattered to me. even when the fear was just as loud ❤️‍🩹 🔥 hence my merchandise “the fears we don’t face Define us”

I learned the hard way that no amount of external control can replace coming home to yourself.🙏🏼

“Through every version, I remain undefinable always growing, always choosing, always UNDEFINABLE.”❤️‍🔥
04/02/2026

“Through every version, I remain undefinable always growing, always choosing, always UNDEFINABLE.”❤️‍🔥

31/01/2026

🙏🏼🩵 Hey 👋🏼 Undefinable’s…

What we’re going through can feel like it’s defining us. An injury. A pause of any sort;
A moment where life forces you to slow down and sit in the unknown.

But what built you…can never be taken from you.
Your heart. ♥️ Your spirit. 🌀 Your mind. 🧠

Those three things got you here and if you let them turn against you, they’ll take you to your lowest point aswell!!!! But if you stay coherent with them, they’ll take you right back up again.🥰🙏🏼

Falls are part of the climb. If you want to rise high, you have to be willing to hit the ground sometimes. That’s life. That’s growth. ❤️‍🩹

Most “setbacks” aren’t setbacks at all they’re pauses,Lessons,Missing chapters that need to be read before the next one can be written.

Let your mind be the vehicle.
Build it strong enough. Change the wheels if you have to. So it can drive you through anything that tries to stop you. 🛻 🛞 🥊

You are not what this moment looks like.
You are what you choose to become through it.
REMAIN UNDEFINABLE. ❤️‍🔥😏

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