16/01/2026
2016 is back apparently and so what? I’m probably too old for this trend because, frankly, 2016 feels like yesterday and not a lot has changed.
I live in the same house, do the same job and even still wear that bikini.
I have older children, some more wrinkles and grey hair now but otherwise I’m not that different.
I’m glad for you if you have transformed your life but let’s also not dismiss consistency. I know it’s not as sexy but you don’t always need to overhaul your life, it’s ok to make little tweaks along the way.
The real changes have happened inside, stealthily without anyone noticing. Those ten years have brought me more clarity about who I am, what I want and don’t want, a lot more confidence, self acceptance, understanding that that letting go is sometimes a relief and the courage to close the door on people whose actions don’t match their words.
In ten years time that bikini will probably haven given up the ghost, I’ll have more wrinkles, more grey hair and adult children but I hope I’ll still be learning about myself and curious for more.
#2016