Heal Yourself Haven

13/02/2026

Experience is the real teacher.

Not the podcast.
Not the book.
Not the advice.

It’s the moment you catch yourself repeating an old pattern… and choose differently.

It’s the hard conversation.
The boundary you finally hold.
The feeling you allow instead of suppress.

This is how confidence is built.
Not in theory — but in lived moments.

And every step counts.

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11/02/2026

Growth doesn’t come from pushing or fixing yourself.
It comes from feeling safe enough to stay.
When the nervous system no longer has to run, truth can be met — and change can happen.

09/02/2026

Anxiety can be exhausting.
Not just in your thoughts — but in your body, your sleep, your confidence, your sense of ease.

If you’ve been coping for a long time, it might not be that you need to try harder…
It might be that your nervous system needs a different kind of support.

I offer gentle, trauma-informed hypnotherapy for anxiety here in Kent, supporting people to feel safer, calmer, and more connected to themselves again — at their own pace.

If something in this speaks to you, you’re very welcome to get in touch for a quiet, no-pressure chat.
No fixing. No pushing. Just a conversation.

Pam x

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06/02/2026

02/02/2026

Being hopeful after disappointment is brave.
When things don’t work out, it can feel safer to shut down, lower expectations, or stop believing altogether. But hope isn’t denial — it’s resilience.

Hope says: “That hurt… and I’m still open.”
It’s choosing not to let one moment, one person, or one experience define what’s possible next.

If you’re feeling tender after disappointment, be gentle with yourself. You don’t need to rush optimism. Sometimes hope begins quietly — as rest, boundaries, or simply not giving up on yourself.

✨ One step. One breath. One new choice.

30/01/2026

Shadow work isn’t about fixing what’s “wrong” with you.
It’s about meeting the parts of you that learned how to survive.
When they’re seen, they soften. 🌱






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29/01/2026

Very happy to hear how this client became a non smoker after her sessions with me 🙌

26/01/2026

Your chakras are energy centres that influence how safe, confident, connected and aligned you feel in life.

🌱 Root – safety & grounding
💧 Sacral – emotions, creativity & pleasure
🔥 Solar Plexus – confidence & self-worth
💚 Heart – love, compassion & connection
🌀 Throat – communication & truth
👁 Third Eye – intuition & clarity
✨ Crown – meaning & spiritual connection

When energy flows, we feel balanced.
When it’s blocked, it often shows up as anxiety, self-doubt, or emotional stuckness.

Awareness is the first step to healing 💫

21/01/2026

When you’re triggered, your nervous system isn’t being dramatic — it’s being protective.
Triggers are signals, not failures.
They show us where safety, reassurance, or boundaries are still needed.
Awareness is the first step toward change. 🫶

19/01/2026

Just a reminder 🫶

14/01/2026

Processing your feelings and emotions - a great visual to guide you 😁